Stop Procrastinating and Start Living Your Best Life Today

[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_00]: that these, you know, families fall apart or they even encourage other people like,

[00:00:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if it doesn't work, don't just get out of the wars.

[00:00:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, come on, no, you have to fight for it.

[00:00:11] [SPEAKER_00]: You have to fight for it.

[00:00:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Uh, no.

[00:00:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Ooh, that's better, right, babe?

[00:00:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah!

[00:00:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:00:27] [SPEAKER_03]: She founded an architectural concrete company.

[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_00]: He founded a hundred million dollar clothing company.

[00:00:34] [SPEAKER_03]: She took the world by storm as a social media star.

[00:00:36] [SPEAKER_00]: He took the world by storm as a famous serial entrepreneur.

[00:00:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Together we started a business

[00:00:42] [SPEAKER_00]: and had babies.

[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Now we're figuring out the best ways to do both.

[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Join us as we learn from other entrepreneurs going through the same life struggle

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_03]: as they share their life hacks about success, love, kids

[00:00:54] [SPEAKER_01]: and everything in between.

[00:00:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Work hard in silence.

[00:00:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Let your success be your norm.

[00:01:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Crop by Frank Ocean.

[00:01:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't be afraid your life will end.

[00:01:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Be afraid that it will never begin.

[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Welcome back to the Pretty and Pung podcast.

[00:01:13] [SPEAKER_03]: My name is Dan Caldwell,

[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_03]: and I'm here with my beautiful co-host and wife,

[00:01:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Ilta Coferenzi.

[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Ilta Coferenzi.

[00:01:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I was ready to go.

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Got another great podcast for you guys today.

[00:01:27] [SPEAKER_03]: How's everybody doing?

[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Does it feel like it's crazy?

[00:01:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Like everything's crazy.

[00:01:31] [SPEAKER_03]: It feels like everything's crazy.

[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Craziness here, craziness there.

[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, and then that's what pushes us into our topic this week.

[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Do you want to introduce it or do you want me to?

[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_03]: No, you introduce it.

[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Like it's...

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, you introduce it.

[00:01:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, bring up that tone.

[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_00]: It's living your best life today

[00:01:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and you could be going through stuff.

[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I know a lot of us are going through stuff

[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_00]: and I feel like I was talking to some people in our community

[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and they were kind of...

[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Just the way that they were talking,

[00:02:04] [SPEAKER_00]: it's almost like they were waiting for things to happen

[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_00]: before they could give themselves permission

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_00]: to live their best life.

[00:02:12] [SPEAKER_00]: And I just want to encourage everyone,

[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_00]: don't wait till you have that 10 million in the bank

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_00]: or you're feeling 100% rested or healthy

[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_00]: or waiting for that diagnosis to be over with

[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_00]: or whatever you're going through.

[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_00]: We need to start living our best life where we are.

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Right now.

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_03]: But I mean, not to say that we're not to say that you don't...

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_03]: That we're not working or that you don't need to...

[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_03]: If you're building your company

[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_03]: or whatever you're doing in your life,

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_03]: not to say that you can't still do that

[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_03]: because you're going to spend a lot of time on that.

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_03]: It's finding the time.

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Finding the joy, finding the gratitude.

[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Finding the things that you can do that.

[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but before we get into that,

[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_00]: let's listen to this first.

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Hey guys, we hope you're enjoying today's episode

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[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_00]: We wanna celebrate you because we know

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_00]: it's not easy being a parent in business.

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[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_00]: And let's get back to the show.

[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_00]: So this week we're gonna talk about

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_00]: some compelling reasons

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_00]: of how and why to live your best life.

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I mean, I heard,

[00:04:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I think there's like this big asteroid.

[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh gosh, don't bring it down.

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Come in our way.

[00:04:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Come on, stop.

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_03]: And like, you know,

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_03]: our presidents getting shy

[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_03]: or ex presidents getting shot at.

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_03]: We got this new election.

[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like Satan's coming down on us.

[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_03]: There's so much happening in the world.

[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, he can try, but the thing is when you...

[00:04:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, on the world, not on us,

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_03]: but I mean, of course he's coming down on everybody.

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_03]: But he's, you know, I feel like the world

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_03]: is in like this crazy state.

[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe it's just my...

[00:04:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Your algorithm might just be bad.

[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_03]: But it looks like there's...

[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_03]: ...beautiful shootings.

[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_03]: No, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_03]: People are going crazy in the UK and London.

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.

[00:04:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Just like so much going on.

[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't have any of that.

[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't.

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I have like beautiful...

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I've got beautiful...

[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Everything's beautiful.

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_00]: People are having babies and wonderful, wonderful...

[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh boy, I gotta restart my algorithm or something.

[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Just use my phone.

[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_03]: You watch one little sideways video.

[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Next thing you know,

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_03]: you get the whole world's falling apart.

[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, and that's the thing.

[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_00]: You've got to really be careful about this stuff

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_00]: that you could take in because it really brings you down.

[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_00]: And if you're already in that risky space

[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_00]: where you're worried about things,

[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_00]: it can really alter your mindset.

[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_00]: But I think first let's start with...

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I want to be able to share some tactical insights

[00:05:43] [SPEAKER_00]: with you guys.

[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_00]: And we're only going to do a quick one

[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_00]: because we are getting ready to go on a little vacation

[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_00]: with the family, which is so exciting.

[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_00]: And this very vacation that we are doing...

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Where are we going again?

[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_00]: We are...

[00:05:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if I'm allowed to say yet.

[00:06:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I want to wait till after.

[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_00]: It's our...

[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I tried to get you to say it, but...

[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_00]: It's our...

[00:06:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, we're going to go have a good time.

[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Our bougie camping.

[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_03]: We'll post a bunch of pictures when we get back.

[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's going to be beautiful.

[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_03]: But you know what?

[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_03]: It's things like that, right?

[00:06:15] [SPEAKER_03]: It's trying to get out of your state of mind

[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_03]: and refreshing yourself like a restart.

[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Kind of like a reboot of my algorithm.

[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_03]: You reboot your life a little bit.

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Right.

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_00]: And one thing that we can do is the health and well-being.

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_00]: And that doesn't just mean obviously yes,

[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_00]: we should be active, go for a walk wherever you're at.

[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, after my surgery,

[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I couldn't work out for a long time.

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_00]: So I just did little things.

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever you're able to do, yes, be physically active.

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever you're able to do.

[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_00]: But that means also feeding yourself well,

[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_00]: feeding yourself healthy things, drinking the water,

[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_00]: getting the rest, dealing with the stress.

[00:06:58] [SPEAKER_00]: How are you...

[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_00]: How do you feel that that's the best way to do it?

[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_00]: For me, it's a little bit of exercise and definitely,

[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_00]: in my life, I don't drink.

[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I like my green tea.

[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Dan likes his coffee.

[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't let him go get takeout coffee because of the...

[00:07:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, that's my vice.

[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like my vice.

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_00]: But I try to make him healthy coffee.

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_00]: So I'll put collagen in there.

[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I have a mushroom coffee with collagen.

[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Oils, all kinds of good stuff.

[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And we're learning.

[00:07:31] [SPEAKER_03]: But it feels like the one thing that I need in my life

[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_03]: that makes me happy.

[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I gotta have that.

[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, it's okay.

[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not...

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, there's different things about caffeine.

[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_00]: But definitely you don't want to be getting those to-go coffees

[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_00]: with the microplastics.

[00:07:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Like we all know what that does to your body now.

[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_00]: It's definitely a cross-maging...

[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Or having for big, you got an energy drink going on every day

[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_03]: or a few...

[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh gosh.

[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Two or three energy drinks a day.

[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_03]: That's a sure way to kill yourself.

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I mean people are honestly going to the hospital

[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_00]: with heart problems and stuff.

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_00]: So get your water in.

[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Get all these tactical things that you can do.

[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Get your greens.

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Get your vegetables.

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Eat healthy.

[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, some people are going towards vegetarians.

[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Some people are getting their meats in.

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_00]: If you are getting your meats,

[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_00]: make sure it's organic and grass-fed.

[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_00]: And just get the best quality that you can.

[00:08:26] [SPEAKER_00]: And I know, I understand everything so...

[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I was in the grocery store the other day.

[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I usually have someone help me do the shopping

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_00]: but I was out and about and I was getting my stuff

[00:08:36] [SPEAKER_00]: and just everything's so pricey.

[00:08:39] [SPEAKER_00]: So stick to the basics.

[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_03]: It's out of control. Do you see that guy who two years ago?

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_03]: He bought...

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's not get depressing.

[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_03]: He bought his Instacart.

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_03]: He bought all this stuff on Instacart.

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_03]: And then...

[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_03]: He compared it to this.

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Two years later, he was able to reorder.

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_03]: You know how you can reorder what you've already ordered?

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.

[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_03]: So he saw his price, what he had paid two years ago.

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_03]: And then we went to go reorder.

[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_03]: It was like double the price,

[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_03]: literally more than double the price for everything.

[00:09:06] [SPEAKER_03]: For the exact same items that he had got two years ago.

[00:09:09] Dang.

[00:09:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, that's insane.

[00:09:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's really crazy.

[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_03]: The thing is at the end of the day, you know...

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_03]: You just...

[00:09:18] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like there's a way...

[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_03]: You just gotta clear your mind of some of this stuff

[00:09:23] [SPEAKER_03]: because if you're worried about every single thing,

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, part of the fix is I feel like...

[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_03]: And I mean, tell me if I'm wrong.

[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_03]: But when you're making more money,

[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_03]: you don't really think about some of those things as much.

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, they still impact you

[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_03]: and all those things impact you.

[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Of course.

[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_03]: And I know there's...

[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_03]: You know, it's not easy.

[00:09:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, the one thing that you and I don't fall into is

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I remember growing up,

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_00]: my mom really made everything

[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_00]: a old school home...

[00:09:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Old school home school.

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_00]: She made everything by scratch.

[00:09:58] [SPEAKER_00]: And I remember feeling...

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_00]: And this was...

[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_00]: It was interesting how I got influenced like,

[00:10:05] [SPEAKER_00]: oh, but we need to be eating craft dinner.

[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Why can't we have that?

[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Or why can't we have Heinz ketchup and all these things that...

[00:10:14] [SPEAKER_00]: And now when you go down the rabbit hole

[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_00]: and you see what's in it,

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: she wouldn't buy me ketchup chips

[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_00]: or anything with colors.

[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_00]: And she had that old school mindset.

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Like it's all chemicals.

[00:10:27] [SPEAKER_00]: And like, but what does that even mean?

[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Who cares?

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody at school is eating it.

[00:10:31] [SPEAKER_00]: But now that I know what I know,

[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm exactly like her, but we're not worse,

[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_00]: but just more aware.

[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_00]: So just do the research on everything.

[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I got a dealer.

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I go see a dealer.

[00:10:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I get my milk from a dealer

[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_00]: because we drink raw milk and eggs

[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and all that stuff.

[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Those are the things that make me happy.

[00:10:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Just do the best you can do.

[00:10:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Do the best you can.

[00:10:58] [SPEAKER_00]: And anyway, so health and wellness,

[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_00]: that's going to be one of the tactical things

[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_00]: that you could do to live your best life.

[00:11:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Now, the other thing is personal growth.

[00:11:09] [SPEAKER_00]: And Dan and I, I feel like when we met each other,

[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_00]: this is something that we were both big on.

[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I grew up in a home where my mom always encouraged me

[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_00]: to be around smarter and people that were better than me

[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_00]: and just never have ego.

[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't be afraid to ask questions.

[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Now this goes for listening to podcasts

[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_00]: because as parents now, we don't have as much time

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_00]: we're building businesses or we're stay at home parents

[00:11:38] [SPEAKER_00]: doing all the things

[00:11:41] [SPEAKER_00]: and we don't have the time to do the events

[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_00]: that you and I used to do.

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we used to go to events all the time.

[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Actually one of our first dates was Tony Robbins' event.

[00:11:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah.

[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_00]: So that's something that we do if we can bring the family,

[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_00]: we'll go but I feel like...

[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_03]: But now you can do them virtually.

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_03]: You can do them online.

[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean there's no excuses for not going to an event.

[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: You just have to be careful

[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: because I feel like a lot of these events

[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_00]: are all over your kids and stuff

[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_00]: and it's just so foul, like the language,

[00:12:11] [SPEAKER_00]: they forget that there really is parents

[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_00]: trying to do the thing that we're doing.

[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: That's why you do it virtually

[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_03]: and it doesn't matter because

[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_03]: if it's not good or you don't want your kids watching it,

[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_03]: you can either have them do something else

[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_03]: or you can turn it off.

[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah and we have something in the works.

[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_00]: We are planning something for our community

[00:12:33] [SPEAKER_00]: so we're excited about that

[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_00]: but definitely podcasts, books

[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and listen to them out loud

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_00]: so your kids can be influenced by that.

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_00]: So that's going to really help you live your best life.

[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah I just...

[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just watching.

[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_00]: You're so good at that too.

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I think just Zoe's trying to put...

[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_03]: We have Daniel watch a documentary every single day.

[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah we set time aside

[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_00]: so he can learn something new every day, something that...

[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Something that deep dives a little bit more

[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_03]: than like a worksheet or something.

[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_03]: So we have him watch a documentary.

[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Sometimes it's only a five minute documentary

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_03]: for kids about Abraham Lincoln

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_03]: and the other times it's...

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_03]: He wants to watch a certain science show

[00:13:12] [SPEAKER_03]: and we let him watch that.

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean he is watching him every day, five days a week anyways

[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_03]: and so it could be anything.

[00:13:19] [SPEAKER_03]: So sometimes we give him a little more leeway

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_03]: and he watches...

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_03]: But yesterday I had him watch a great short...

[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Like two hour...

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I think it was a two hour call that I had watched

[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_03]: and I thought it was really good.

[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_03]: It was from a great speaker

[00:13:38] [SPEAKER_03]: who's a speaker for Microsoft

[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_03]: and he was talking about speaking

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_03]: and Daniel obviously being a speaker.

[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I want...

[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_03]: It was a little bit...

[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_03]: He's speaking to adults

[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_03]: but I wanted Daniel to watch it

[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_03]: because there are so many great tips in there

[00:13:58] [SPEAKER_03]: and so many great points that the guy was making

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_03]: and I thought it would be great for Daniel.

[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_03]: So I sat him watching for his documentary.

[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_03]: He's interested in that.

[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_00]: So that's...

[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_03]: He is but it was kind of like...

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I think he would have...

[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Here's the thing.

[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_03]: He would have chosen to watch a science one instead

[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_03]: or something else instead

[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_03]: but I encouraged him.

[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_03]: I told him how good this was going to be.

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_03]: And the guy did some magic in the show

[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_03]: so it was great that he got to see that

[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_03]: and he enjoyed that part of it too.

[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_03]: So it just made it fun

[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_03]: and the guy is fun anyway

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_03]: so I knew it would be good for him.

[00:14:32] [SPEAKER_03]: And so yeah have your kids find fun shows

[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_03]: find fun things where they get to learn

[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_03]: and you can learn with them.

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean I watched it with him so it was great.

[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_03]: We had a great time.

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah yeah and that's true

[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_00]: because there are a lot of people out there

[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_00]: with charisma that are just really exciting to watch

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_00]: but I know some people in business

[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_00]: it's like when you listen to them

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: they're so monodone

[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_00]: and they don't talk very exciting

[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_00]: and it's like watching paint dry

[00:15:00] [SPEAKER_00]: but you have to listen to them

[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_00]: because they are so much...

[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean that's really what this guy was teaching.

[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_03]: He's like the communications coach

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_03]: for Microsoft.

[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_03]: And that's so important

[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_00]: if we can't communicate

[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_00]: we can't get anywhere in life.

[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_00]: That is so important

[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_00]: that is so key for children

[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_00]: to start learning how to communicate

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_00]: well because they're gonna need it

[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_00]: that's a lifelong skill

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_00]: public speaking if they're comfortable with it

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_00]: and also financial literacy

[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_00]: so all that stuff

[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_00]: that stuff that we always need to learn

[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_00]: because there's different things

[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_00]: in business and finances

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_00]: and all that fun stuff

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_00]: open your mind to new things

[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_00]: new hobbies

[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_00]: things that the family can do together

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: that's gonna help you live your best life

[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_00]: step outside your boundaries

[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_00]: do things that maybe are a little...

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_00]: That maybe even scare you a little bit

[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_00]: just step outside of your comfort box

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and go for it.

[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Go jump out of an airplane.

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good.

[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_03]: One day we're just gonna show up at...

[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_00]: God already gave me the blessings of to survive

[00:16:07] [SPEAKER_00]: he's gonna be like...

[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I've done it once and I said

[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll probably never do it again but...

[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I got you out of the...

[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I got you out of the health scare

[00:16:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I got you out

[00:16:14] [SPEAKER_00]: why would you jump out of a plane?

[00:16:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Just why would you do that?

[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I've dealt with worse.

[00:16:20] [SPEAKER_03]: It's a perfectly good...

[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah actually you know why you jumped?

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I got scared though.

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I was more scared of the airplane

[00:16:24] [SPEAKER_03]: the airplane seriously and no joke

[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not scared though.

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I was literally more scared of being in the airplane

[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_03]: the airplane looked like it was ready to

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_03]: like a wing was about to fall off

[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not excited about it.

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_03]: So jumping out was kind of like a relief

[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_03]: it was like soon as you jump out you're kind of like

[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_03]: wow we're away from that thing

[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_03]: at least we're gonna be okay now

[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_03]: and as long as this parachute opens we'll be good.

[00:16:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh that's hilarious.

[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah I don't know why it just...

[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_00]: If it was something that excited me

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_00]: then I'd do it but I'm not scared

[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_00]: like I'm not scared to do it

[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_00]: and I'm not really excited to do it

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_00]: so I'm just kind of...

[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know it's that...

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_02]: We'll see

[00:16:59] [SPEAKER_02]: We'll see

[00:16:59] [SPEAKER_02]: Nah I'm just not excited about it.

[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna drag you kicking and screaming.

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_03]: No I don't want to it's not fun for me.

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah I'd rather go on a vacation somewhere

[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd rather have them... no

[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_00]: There's other challenging things I could do.

[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_03]: So you're telling me you'd rather go to the south of France

[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_03]: than jump out of an airplane?

[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Why?

[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Because

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_00]: a cruise in Greece...

[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_00]: We're just gonna be more memorable

[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_03]: You've been to the south of France

[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_03]: We've been to France

[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_03]: No but I wanna go again

[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_03]: No I just wanna relax

[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I wanna bring my kids

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: I wanna make great memories

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't wanna jump out of a plane

[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't... it doesn't...

[00:17:32] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not a bucket list

[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I'd rather...

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go to Greece

[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_00]: and let's go do the things

[00:17:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go do the things

[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_00]: So whatever tickles

[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_00]: if you wanna jump out of a plane

[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_00]: do that

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_00]: because that'll help you live your best life

[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_00]: but for me I'm just...

[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not excited about that right now

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I've had enough fears

[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Or surprise your wife for her birthday

[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_02]: with an airplane ride

[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_00]: No I've been through armed robberies

[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I've been through gunfights

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good

[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Like I've had that part of my eternal lingo

[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm cool

[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I lived it

[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_00]: So next one

[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Let's do meaningful relationships

[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay?

[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_00]: This is gonna help you do

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_00]: your best life

[00:18:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Living, loving

[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_00]: All the good stuff

[00:18:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Joy with your partner

[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_00]: But then also

[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_00]: this also covers

[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Really take inventory

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_00]: And we've talked about this before

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Take inventory of your surroundings

[00:18:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Are these people encouraging you?

[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Are they lifting you?

[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Because we all know

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and I just listened to someone talk about it the other day

[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_00]: that negative people in your life

[00:18:45] [SPEAKER_00]: will actually ruin your life

[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_00]: and probably because of the mental stress

[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and stress as a number one killer

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_00]: It can really...

[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes we have negative people

[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_00]: in our family

[00:18:59] [SPEAKER_00]: in our surrounding

[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_00]: in our friendship

[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_00]: And it's not...

[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not healthy

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean here's the thing

[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_03]: When you have something on your heart

[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_03]: like you're trying to start a business

[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_03]: or you're creating a product

[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_03]: or even if you're just

[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_03]: maybe deciding to eat organic

[00:19:18] [SPEAKER_03]: or whatever that might be

[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_03]: There could be little things

[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_03]: where you're just deciding

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna do this

[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_03]: for my family

[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna do it for myself

[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Why do you eat so healthy?

[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_03]: You're gonna have somebody in your life

[00:19:28] [SPEAKER_00]: who's gonna...

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Who's gonna...

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_03]: If they're not...

[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_03]: If they're not inspiring you

[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_03]: if they're not people around you

[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_03]: that are inspiring you

[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_03]: and you have some negative Nelly

[00:19:37] [SPEAKER_03]: or whoever they might be

[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_03]: or some family member

[00:19:40] [SPEAKER_03]: whoever they might be in your life

[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_03]: who starts pulling you down

[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_03]: those are the type of people

[00:19:46] [SPEAKER_03]: that you just have to like go

[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_03]: look I can't talk to these people anymore

[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_00]: And you can be honest

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_00]: and you can just be on

[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I've had this conversation with people

[00:19:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I've actually had this conversation

[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_00]: of I love you

[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_00]: but I can't be around you

[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not good for me

[00:20:04] [SPEAKER_00]: and it's probably not good for you

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_00]: because my way of life might not...

[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I can't think that

[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_00]: it wouldn't be good for them

[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_00]: but it just...

[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I had to have the talk

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_00]: and I have to be honest

[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I can't be around you

[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_00]: And sometimes if you don't think

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_00]: that they're gonna understand

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_00]: you just can't answer the phone anymore

[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_00]: and you just start getting busy

[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I used to have this sarcastic person in my life

[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_03]: that was like really sarcastic all the time

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_03]: and sarcastic about everything

[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_03]: into the point where it was like

[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_00]: We don't have that in our house at all

[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_03]: I couldn't take it anymore

[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I just had to like not pick up the phone anymore

[00:20:40] [SPEAKER_00]: No, that's not fun

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I couldn't

[00:20:43] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I just honestly

[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I have to be around people

[00:20:47] [SPEAKER_00]: that lift me

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00]: that challenge me

[00:20:49] [SPEAKER_00]: that are honest

[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_00]: honest

[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, sometimes the truth hurts

[00:20:54] [SPEAKER_00]: but I know it's because they love me

[00:20:58] [SPEAKER_00]: and my mom

[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_00]: my mom was one of the people that was

[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_00]: so brutally honest with me

[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_00]: but I always knew

[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I always knew

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think anybody loves you more

[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_00]: than your mom until

[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_00]: you know until you get married

[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_00]: but even then sometimes

[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_00]: I think maybe my mom loved me more

[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_00]: and certainly

[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Well sometimes

[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_03]: and you know what the sad thing is

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_03]: sometimes it will be your mom

[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_03]: and it'll be your dad

[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_03]: and it's not that you can't

[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_03]: like for them

[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_03]: for your close family members

[00:21:27] [SPEAKER_03]: sometimes you just have to have the talk with them

[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_03]: so it's like

[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_03]: look

[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I understand that you just want the best for me

[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_03]: because most of the time

[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_03]: most of the time

[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_03]: not every time

[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_03]: but most of the time

[00:21:36] [SPEAKER_03]: your brothers

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_03]: your sisters

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_03]: your cousins

[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_03]: your parents

[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_03]: they want the best for you

[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_03]: but

[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh no, my mom was never negative

[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Well no but

[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_00]: she was never negative

[00:21:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm just saying when they're worried about you

[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_03]: it'll come off as

[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_03]: it'll stress you

[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_03]: because

[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_03]: they'll be worried about

[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_03]: you know do you

[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_03]: are you sure this is right

[00:21:55] [SPEAKER_03]: why are you doing this

[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_03]: or why are you doing that

[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I think it was different with my mom

[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_00]: my mom would push me

[00:22:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just saying

[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying just for your mom

[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm saying for

[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_03]: people in the world

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_03]: that they're closest family members

[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_03]: will come at them

[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_03]: because they're worried about them

[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_03]: and so

[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_03]: when you're worried about people

[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_03]: you're doing it with love sometimes

[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_03]: you're going

[00:22:16] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:16] [SPEAKER_03]: are you really sure

[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_03]: that you just

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean I quit my job

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_03]: and my parents

[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I quit my job as a police officer

[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_03]: and

[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_03]: they're like

[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_03]: are you sure this was the right move

[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_03]: it wasn't that they

[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_03]: they love me

[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_03]: they just want to go

[00:22:32] [SPEAKER_03]: are you sure you made the right decision here

[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I knew in my heart

[00:22:36] [SPEAKER_03]: they didn't know everything

[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_03]: they hadn't seen my books

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_03]: they didn't know I made

[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah

[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_03]: a couple million dollars last year

[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_03]: or million dollars

[00:22:43] [SPEAKER_03]: like whatever we were at that time

[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_03]: and uh

[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_03]: you know they just knew that

[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_03]: they

[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_03]: they were worried that

[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I worked so hard to get this job

[00:22:52] [SPEAKER_03]: even though I wasn't at

[00:22:54] [SPEAKER_03]: my original job

[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_03]: that I

[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_03]: loved

[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_03]: this one was kind of like a secondary job

[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_03]: but I was still

[00:23:00] [SPEAKER_03]: working to try to get

[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_03]: another big department

[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_03]: and

[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_03]: they just wanted the best for me

[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_03]: and so sometimes they say this stuff

[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_03]: when they just want the best for you

[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_03]: and sometimes

[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_03]: you just have to have that conversation with them

[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_03]: you

[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_03]: you just tell them look

[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I understand that you want the best for me

[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_03]: and I had this conversation with them

[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_03]: I understand you want the best for me

[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_03]: I understand you're just worried about me

[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_03]: but I promise you

[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I promise you

[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_03]: we're on the

[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_03]: we're onto something here

[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_03]: we're on the right track

[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_03]: and sometimes it's

[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_03]: showing them your numbers

[00:23:30] [SPEAKER_03]: showing them what's going on

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_03]: showing them what's happening

[00:23:32] [SPEAKER_03]: like

[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_03]: you see how this has grown every

[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean that's what I did

[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_03]: I said do you see how this has grown

[00:23:38] [SPEAKER_03]: every month

[00:23:39] [SPEAKER_03]: for the past three years

[00:23:41] [SPEAKER_03]: do you see where this is going right now

[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_03]: do you see how fast

[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_03]: this is you know where we're going to be here in a minute

[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_03]: if this keeps going this way

[00:23:48] [SPEAKER_03]: that

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_03]: who knows where this is going

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_03]: the growth

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_03]: and because at that time we were also writing

[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_03]: you know the wave of the UFC

[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_03]: so the UFC growth

[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_03]: and

[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_03]: and you know my parents knew

[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_03]: my dad knew

[00:24:02] [SPEAKER_03]: because he had watched the very first UFC with me

[00:24:04] [SPEAKER_03]: the very first time it was on

[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_03]: pay-per-view

[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_03]: he bought

[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_03]: he bought the pay-per-view for me

[00:24:08] [SPEAKER_00]: so

[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:24:10] [SPEAKER_03]: when you have those conversations with them

[00:24:12] [SPEAKER_03]: it helps them get on the page with you

[00:24:14] [SPEAKER_03]: and they're still going to be worried

[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_03]: but at least you won't have that weight of them

[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_03]: coming on to you

[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_03]: all the time

[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah see I never

[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_00]: I never had that from my mom

[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_00]: my mom would like

[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_00]: fire under my crazy ideas

[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_00]: because

[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean she

[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_00]: as an entrepreneur

[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_00]: old-school entrepreneur

[00:24:31] [SPEAKER_00]: that was a crazy idea

[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_00]: for her

[00:24:34] [SPEAKER_00]: and I remember her friends would be like

[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_00]: oh why don't you just

[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_00]: not her friends friends

[00:24:40] [SPEAKER_00]: but just people

[00:24:41] [SPEAKER_00]: like

[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_00]: there was this one person I remember

[00:24:45] [SPEAKER_00]: and she told this person to never call her again

[00:24:49] [SPEAKER_00]: she said to go on

[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_00]: like food stamps

[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_00]: or welfare or something

[00:24:53] [SPEAKER_00]: and my mom just said

[00:24:54] [SPEAKER_00]: do not

[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_00]: call me ever again

[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_00]: because she said

[00:24:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I cannot

[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I would not be able to live my

[00:25:02] [SPEAKER_00]: with myself

[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_00]: if my kids

[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_00]: ever saw me do something like that

[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_00]: and I've never seen a harder worker

[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_00]: and she was always successful

[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean

[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_00]: she made it

[00:25:13] [SPEAKER_00]: by herself as a single mom

[00:25:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't recommend it to anyone

[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_00]: it is not easy

[00:25:19] [SPEAKER_00]: people say oh yeah

[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_00]: you could just get divorced

[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_00]: and you

[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_00]: get the kids part time

[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_00]: it's great

[00:25:24] [SPEAKER_00]: no it's not

[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_00]: it isn't

[00:25:27] [SPEAKER_00]: my mom succeeded

[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_00]: but I know

[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_00]: the overworking

[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_00]: and all the hours

[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_00]: added to

[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:25:35] [SPEAKER_00]: the illness

[00:25:35] [SPEAKER_00]: and stuff at the end of her life

[00:25:37] [SPEAKER_00]: but she lived

[00:25:38] [SPEAKER_00]: she did live a good life

[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_00]: and she lived

[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_00]: the best life that she could

[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_00]: in the position that we

[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_00]: she was in

[00:25:45] [SPEAKER_00]: and I respect her for everything

[00:25:47] [SPEAKER_00]: but it just makes me sad

[00:25:50] [SPEAKER_00]: that these

[00:25:51] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_00]: families fall apart

[00:25:53] [SPEAKER_00]: or they even encourage other people

[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_00]: like oh if it doesn't work

[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_00]: don't just

[00:25:57] [SPEAKER_00]: get her divorced

[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_00]: like

[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_00]: come on

[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_00]: no

[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_00]: you have to fight for it

[00:26:01] [SPEAKER_00]: you have to fight for it

[00:26:03] [SPEAKER_00]: anyway

[00:26:04] [SPEAKER_00]: just being around people

[00:26:05] [SPEAKER_00]: that have the best influence

[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_00]: for you

[00:26:10] [SPEAKER_00]: as I said

[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_00]: for me

[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I had to get rid of

[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_00]: negative Nelly friends

[00:26:16] [SPEAKER_00]: it just would

[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_00]: it gives me

[00:26:18] [SPEAKER_00]: like this anxious feeling

[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_00]: like I cannot

[00:26:21] [SPEAKER_00]: be around people like that

[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_00]: or if they're

[00:26:24] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_00]: talking behind my back

[00:26:26] [SPEAKER_00]: those people aren't your friends

[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_00]: like you don't need them

[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_00]: just shave them off

[00:26:31] [SPEAKER_03]: you want people that are gonna

[00:26:32] [SPEAKER_03]: lift you up

[00:26:33] [SPEAKER_03]: you want people that

[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: you know that's why

[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: typically

[00:26:35] [SPEAKER_00]: this is our community

[00:26:36] [SPEAKER_00]: you end up surrounding yourself by

[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_03]: with your

[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_03]: if you have a partner in your business

[00:26:40] [SPEAKER_03]: or

[00:26:41] [SPEAKER_03]: and your girlfriend

[00:26:42] [SPEAKER_03]: or your wife

[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_03]: and that's why you end up

[00:26:45] [SPEAKER_03]: surrounding yourself with those people

[00:26:47] [SPEAKER_03]: because you know those people

[00:26:49] [SPEAKER_03]: have your best interests in mind

[00:26:51] [SPEAKER_03]: and they're

[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_03]: usually dependent on your success

[00:26:55] [SPEAKER_03]: so you guys are all in the same boat together

[00:26:57] [SPEAKER_03]: and sometimes

[00:26:57] [SPEAKER_03]: you know as an entrepreneur

[00:27:00] [SPEAKER_03]: you're already crazy

[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_03]: if you're doing what you're doing

[00:27:02] [SPEAKER_03]: so

[00:27:02] [SPEAKER_03]: no you're not

[00:27:03] [SPEAKER_03]: well

[00:27:04] [SPEAKER_03]: crazy in the way that

[00:27:05] [SPEAKER_03]: wonderful

[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_03]: you're crazy like a fox

[00:27:07] [SPEAKER_03]: crazy like a fox

[00:27:08] [SPEAKER_03]: and you're

[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I know it is

[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_03]: you got people coming at you

[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_03]: and

[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_03]: you

[00:27:12] [SPEAKER_03]: you have to be a little crazy to do this

[00:27:14] [SPEAKER_03]: so sometimes

[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_03]: you only understand each other

[00:27:18] [SPEAKER_00]: you have to be a warrior

[00:27:20] [SPEAKER_00]: excited

[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_03]: okay there's a few different ways

[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_03]: you can explain it

[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_03]: but

[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_03]: and it is

[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_03]: but

[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean

[00:27:26] [SPEAKER_03]: we're doing

[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_03]: think

[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_03]: we're not taking the easy route

[00:27:29] [SPEAKER_03]: and so a lot of people think

[00:27:30] [SPEAKER_03]: that's true

[00:27:30] [SPEAKER_00]: you're not depending on the nine to five

[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_00]: there will be months where it's hard

[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_00]: even years

[00:27:36] [SPEAKER_00]: until you get to that vision

[00:27:38] [SPEAKER_00]: that's

[00:27:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I love the

[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_00]: the coming up story

[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I think that's why we started

[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_00]: the collectibles business

[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_00]: a while back

[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_00]: for Daniel

[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_00]: because

[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_00]: or

[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_00]: or just wanted to have it around him

[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and then he started doing the quotes

[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_00]: and all that stuff

[00:27:53] [SPEAKER_00]: which is so cool

[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_00]: but

[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_00]: what I love about these documents of

[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_00]: entrepreneurs

[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_00]: and great leaders and presidents

[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:28:01] [SPEAKER_00]: and these things that we collected

[00:28:03] [SPEAKER_00]: and we have a great Muhammad Ali one

[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_00]: right now

[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_00]: that's super exciting

[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_00]: because they're starting this contract

[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_03]: from 1970 for a fight

[00:28:11] [SPEAKER_00]: they have a show around the very contract

[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_00]: that we have

[00:28:15] [SPEAKER_00]: and that nuts

[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah anyway

[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_00]: off topic a little bit

[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_00]: but

[00:28:20] [SPEAKER_00]: what was I trying to say

[00:28:21] [SPEAKER_03]: you were talking about

[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_03]: true

[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_03]: see

[00:28:24] [SPEAKER_03]: when we get so sidetracked

[00:28:25] [SPEAKER_03]: because we're talking about

[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_03]: oh boy

[00:28:28] [SPEAKER_03]: here we go

[00:28:29] [SPEAKER_03]: okay

[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I know we're supposed to wrap it up early this time

[00:28:32] [SPEAKER_00]: and it got me

[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_00]: mommy

[00:28:34] [SPEAKER_03]: see

[00:28:34] [SPEAKER_03]: you gotta mark yourself if you're going okay

[00:28:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna get sidetracked here for a second

[00:28:38] [SPEAKER_03]: you gotta write

[00:28:39] [SPEAKER_03]: like this is what I'm coming back to

[00:28:41] [SPEAKER_00]: about the contract

[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_00]: and I lost everything

[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I lost not at all

[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_00]: but um

[00:28:48] [SPEAKER_00]: yes

[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I told you this

[00:28:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I said when we start this podcast

[00:28:53] [SPEAKER_03]: I said do not look at me

[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_03]: like

[00:28:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna save you

[00:28:57] [SPEAKER_03]: like I know you're

[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_03]: did I just say like like three times in a row

[00:29:01] [SPEAKER_03]: listen

[00:29:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not gonna save you

[00:29:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I said when you get sidetracked like that

[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_03]: you have to find your way back

[00:29:09] [SPEAKER_03]: and so

[00:29:10] [SPEAKER_03]: you gotta go don't look at me

[00:29:12] [SPEAKER_03]: she looks at me okay for people who don't see what we're doing

[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_03]: she looks at me

[00:29:17] [SPEAKER_03]: and she goes

[00:29:17] [SPEAKER_03]: like go ahead

[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_03]: like you talk

[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_03]: just

[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I told you

[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_03]: and I specifically said at the beginning of this podcast

[00:29:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I said I'm not going to save you when you do that

[00:29:29] [SPEAKER_03]: because

[00:29:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I know you get sidetracked and start talking about it

[00:29:32] [SPEAKER_00]: moving forward

[00:29:33] [SPEAKER_00]: so

[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_00]: there you go

[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_00]: you can be the

[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_00]: you can be the one

[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_00]: you could be the one

[00:29:39] [SPEAKER_00]: that changes someone's day

[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_00]: give them a quick morning text

[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_00]: and that goes

[00:29:44] [SPEAKER_00]: for the people in your

[00:29:46] [SPEAKER_00]: circle

[00:29:48] [SPEAKER_00]: your husband

[00:29:48] [SPEAKER_00]: or whoever you think

[00:29:50] [SPEAKER_03]: it's why we advocate so much for a family

[00:29:52] [SPEAKER_03]: business

[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_03]: you know for your wife

[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_03]: you and your wife

[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_03]: she's your best partner

[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_03]: or your husband

[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_03]: they're your best partner

[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_03]: and then maybe you have another partner

[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_03]: you know another best friend

[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_03]: or

[00:30:03] [SPEAKER_03]: brother or cousin

[00:30:04] [SPEAKER_03]: send them a letter

[00:30:05] [SPEAKER_00]: send them a text

[00:30:06] [SPEAKER_00]: send them something that lifts their spirit

[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_00]: and also really listen to each other

[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_00]: the people around you

[00:30:14] [SPEAKER_00]: especially your spouse

[00:30:15] [SPEAKER_00]: like just make sure the phones

[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean this isn't something you guys don't know

[00:30:19] [SPEAKER_00]: but

[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_00]: just put the phone down

[00:30:21] [SPEAKER_00]: when your kids are coming to you

[00:30:23] [SPEAKER_00]: never make them feel like your phone

[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_00]: or your business

[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_00]: or anything like that

[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_00]: is more important

[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_00]: include them in the business

[00:30:32] [SPEAKER_00]: put the phone down

[00:30:33] [SPEAKER_00]: full eye contact

[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_00]: all that stuff

[00:30:36] [SPEAKER_00]: and listen guys

[00:30:36] [SPEAKER_00]: you guys are the priest of your home

[00:30:40] [SPEAKER_00]: and I'm going to tell you something

[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_00]: that you can implement today

[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_00]: because this is something we do

[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:30:49] [SPEAKER_00]: we've been doing

[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and I would love you to keep doing

[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_00]: forever and ever

[00:30:55] [SPEAKER_00]: is we as

[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_00]: as the

[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_00]: the men

[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_00]: the men in the family

[00:30:59] [SPEAKER_00]: are ordained

[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_00]: are ordained

[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_00]: to speak blessings

[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_00]: over their wives

[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_00]: and it's so

[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_00]: your entire family

[00:31:07] [SPEAKER_00]: your wives

[00:31:08] [SPEAKER_00]: and your family

[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_00]: but it is so

[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_03]: speak blessings over your kids

[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_00]: so important

[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_00]: yes

[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like where you going with this for a second

[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I was like what about

[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_03]: you

[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_03]: you

[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I thought I'm supposed to know this

[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_00]: no because as

[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_00]: as your wife

[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_00]: when you speak blessings

[00:31:21] [SPEAKER_00]: over your wife

[00:31:22] [SPEAKER_00]: because she's

[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_00]: there's a lot of mental load

[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_00]: and especially when we've just had babies

[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_00]: we're breast

[00:31:28] [SPEAKER_00]: we're

[00:31:29] [SPEAKER_00]: we're nursing

[00:31:29] [SPEAKER_00]: and we're doing all the things

[00:31:31] [SPEAKER_00]: we're in a different

[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_00]: place

[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:31:34] [SPEAKER_00]: sometimes we feel like we're losing our

[00:31:36] [SPEAKER_00]: identity

[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_00]: but really

[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_00]: pray for her

[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_00]: because

[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_00]: her identity

[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_00]: she's giving birth to this new

[00:31:44] [SPEAKER_00]: incredibly strong woman

[00:31:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and she the devil

[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_00]: may you know

[00:31:49] [SPEAKER_00]: the dark forces may

[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_00]: want to make her feel like

[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_00]: she's losing herself when really

[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_00]: she is stepping into the thing that

[00:31:57] [SPEAKER_00]: she has called for

[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_00]: yes we build businesses with our

[00:32:01] [SPEAKER_00]: our wives

[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_00]: or maybe our wives are building

[00:32:03] [SPEAKER_00]: businesses

[00:32:03] [SPEAKER_00]: or maybe their stay at home

[00:32:05] [SPEAKER_00]: but they are falling into their true

[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_00]: calling

[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_00]: and when you just

[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_00]: start speaking a simple blessing

[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_00]: over your wife

[00:32:13] [SPEAKER_00]: every day

[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_00]: it is powerful and transformational

[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_00]: and when she feels that

[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_00]: that love from you

[00:32:23] [SPEAKER_00]: it's going to be a blessing for you

[00:32:25] [SPEAKER_00]: for your whole family

[00:32:26] [SPEAKER_03]: and that's important

[00:32:27] [SPEAKER_03]: and I'll tell you what

[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_03]: two guys out there

[00:32:29] [SPEAKER_03]: you need your wife to be at her best

[00:32:33] [SPEAKER_03]: yes not only to support you

[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_03]: and what you're doing

[00:32:36] [SPEAKER_03]: but if she's your partner

[00:32:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I need Ildiko to be my best partner

[00:32:42] [SPEAKER_03]: and I want the best for her

[00:32:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I want her to be able to operate at

[00:32:46] [SPEAKER_03]: 150%

[00:32:47] [SPEAKER_03]: and I know

[00:32:48] [SPEAKER_03]: you know because of her

[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_03]: medical challenges

[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_03]: you know it's not always easy for her

[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_03]: and so I want her to operate at her best

[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm constantly praying over her

[00:32:59] [SPEAKER_03]: and thanking her

[00:33:02] [SPEAKER_03]: and I want her

[00:33:03] [SPEAKER_03]: and you know not to say that

[00:33:05] [SPEAKER_03]: everything's always perfect

[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_03]: but you know she's going through a lot

[00:33:09] [SPEAKER_03]: and I know she's going through a lot

[00:33:11] [SPEAKER_03]: and sometimes when I get a little

[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_03]: stressed and I'm going

[00:33:13] [SPEAKER_03]: dealing with a lot of things at once

[00:33:16] [SPEAKER_03]: and you know I try to go back

[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_03]: and remember her

[00:33:19] [SPEAKER_03]: you know the bible says it

[00:33:22] [SPEAKER_03]: you know love your wife

[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_03]: like Christ loved the church

[00:33:24] [SPEAKER_03]: and Christ died for the church

[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_03]: so how much do you love your wife

[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_03]: you need to

[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_03]: and if she doesn't know that

[00:33:31] [SPEAKER_03]: you need to tell her

[00:33:32] [SPEAKER_03]: and some of the

[00:33:34] [SPEAKER_03]: one of the best ways

[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_03]: you can do it

[00:33:36] [SPEAKER_03]: because I mean it's great

[00:33:37] [SPEAKER_03]: it's you know sometimes

[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_03]: it feels a little awkward

[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_03]: when you're telling her directly

[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_03]: because it comes out

[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_03]: no you got kids yelling

[00:33:44] [SPEAKER_03]: and running

[00:33:44] [SPEAKER_03]: and things going on

[00:33:45] [SPEAKER_03]: and they're making food

[00:33:46] [SPEAKER_03]: and everything's going on in the world

[00:33:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll tell you where it's the easiest

[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_03]: to just say all the things

[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_03]: that you want to say

[00:33:52] [SPEAKER_03]: is in prayer

[00:33:53] [SPEAKER_03]: when you speak of prayer

[00:33:54] [SPEAKER_03]: for your wife and your kids

[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_03]: it's just

[00:33:57] [SPEAKER_03]: and it's absolutely great

[00:33:59] [SPEAKER_03]: for your kids to hear

[00:34:00] [SPEAKER_00]: like a security blanket

[00:34:02] [SPEAKER_00]: for your kids

[00:34:03] [SPEAKER_00]: is when

[00:34:04] [SPEAKER_00]: they know their parents love each other

[00:34:06] [SPEAKER_00]: everything could be sideways

[00:34:08] [SPEAKER_00]: but if they know

[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_00]: their parents love each other

[00:34:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and they're secure

[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_00]: in their relationship

[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_00]: that

[00:34:14] [SPEAKER_00]: that

[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean we can go into a whole different podcast

[00:34:18] [SPEAKER_00]: about how negatively

[00:34:21] [SPEAKER_00]: it will affect your kids

[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_00]: not just now

[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_00]: but the toxicity that it'll cause

[00:34:26] [SPEAKER_00]: in their future life

[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_00]: if the parents don't get along

[00:34:29] [SPEAKER_00]: so

[00:34:30] [SPEAKER_00]: it is so important to have

[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_00]: God bless your marriage

[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_00]: bless your spouse

[00:34:34] [SPEAKER_00]: and mothers

[00:34:35] [SPEAKER_00]: we've said this before

[00:34:37] [SPEAKER_00]: nothing is more

[00:34:38] [SPEAKER_00]: of course

[00:34:39] [SPEAKER_00]: you know

[00:34:39] [SPEAKER_00]: the father pray over your kids

[00:34:42] [SPEAKER_00]: but nothing is more powerful

[00:34:44] [SPEAKER_00]: than a praying mother

[00:34:46] [SPEAKER_00]: it'll get all

[00:34:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I know

[00:34:47] [SPEAKER_00]: it'll get all

[00:34:49] [SPEAKER_00]: disease out of the way

[00:34:51] [SPEAKER_00]: all negative people

[00:34:52] [SPEAKER_00]: pray over the friends

[00:34:54] [SPEAKER_00]: that your kids aren't supposed to have

[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_00]: they'll just

[00:34:57] [SPEAKER_00]: fall off

[00:34:58] [SPEAKER_03]: it's fixed everything in our lives

[00:35:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm telling you

[00:35:01] [SPEAKER_03]: praying mothers

[00:35:01] [SPEAKER_00]: praying husbands

[00:35:02] [SPEAKER_00]: you know what

[00:35:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Destiny said something yesterday

[00:35:04] [SPEAKER_03]: that like was

[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_03]: it was

[00:35:06] [SPEAKER_03]: you know it's not that

[00:35:08] [SPEAKER_03]: it wasn't that big of a deal

[00:35:09] [SPEAKER_03]: but to me it was a big deal

[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_03]: she said she

[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_03]: when you were gone

[00:35:13] [SPEAKER_03]: and I was watching both of them

[00:35:15] [SPEAKER_03]: and I can't remember

[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Daniel's exact words

[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_03]: what he said was something like

[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:35:22] [SPEAKER_03]: mom will throw

[00:35:24] [SPEAKER_03]: mom will throw dad off the couch

[00:35:26] [SPEAKER_03]: or something like that

[00:35:27] [SPEAKER_03]: and destiny

[00:35:28] [SPEAKER_03]: you know how she'll get

[00:35:29] [SPEAKER_03]: she takes the words a little literal

[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_03]: you know

[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_03]: so he was like playing

[00:35:32] [SPEAKER_03]: you know like things are

[00:35:33] [SPEAKER_03]: we're playing and

[00:35:34] [SPEAKER_03]: and she goes

[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_03]: mom would never do that

[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_03]: mom loves daddy

[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_03]: he would

[00:35:39] [SPEAKER_03]: she wouldn't do that to him

[00:35:40] [SPEAKER_03]: and she got all mad

[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_03]: and kind of

[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_03]: kind of stood up to

[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Daniel a little bit

[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_03]: and I was like

[00:35:46] [SPEAKER_03]: oh no

[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_03]: he's just playing babe

[00:35:48] [SPEAKER_03]: you know I was just trying to

[00:35:49] [SPEAKER_03]: but she was

[00:35:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I

[00:35:51] [SPEAKER_03]: it was a

[00:35:52] [SPEAKER_03]: it was a good moment for me

[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_00]: it makes me cry

[00:35:54] [SPEAKER_03]: I love that she said that

[00:35:56] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah she's so precious

[00:35:57] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah she definitely is

[00:35:59] [SPEAKER_00]: and we

[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_00]: we push that in our children

[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_00]: to stand

[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_00]: up for other people

[00:36:06] [SPEAKER_00]: that don't have a voice

[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_00]: have the courage to speak up

[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_00]: for other people that don't have a voice

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and never be afraid to bring people closer to God

[00:36:15] [SPEAKER_00]: because it can literally save their life

[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_00]: so

[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I love that about her

[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I love that about Daniel

[00:36:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel's a jokester

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_00]: but I do love how

[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_00]: she definitely has the

[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_00]: the courage and

[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_00]: that's her middle name

[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_00]: here's

[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah she's

[00:36:30] [SPEAKER_00]: a warrior

[00:36:30] [SPEAKER_00]: she definitely is

[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_00]: she will say

[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_03]: if somebody's

[00:36:33] [SPEAKER_03]: not saying the right thing

[00:36:34] [SPEAKER_03]: she will definitely stand up

[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_03]: for what she believes in

[00:36:37] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah she's so awesome that way

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and that's something we encourage in both of our kids

[00:36:42] [SPEAKER_00]: and it makes me happy

[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_00]: and I love

[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_00]: when even I

[00:36:47] sometimes

[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I've said something a little negative

[00:36:50] [SPEAKER_00]: and she's like

[00:36:51] [SPEAKER_00]: you can do it because

[00:36:53] [SPEAKER_00]: God loves you

[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_00]: and she just

[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_03]: and Daniel definitely said that too

[00:36:57] [SPEAKER_00]: yeah so anyway

[00:36:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I hope that you guys have an incredible week

[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_00]: and we are coming to you

[00:37:05] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah we're gonna be on the road this week

[00:37:07] [SPEAKER_03]: but I

[00:37:08] [SPEAKER_03]: will tell you guys all about it next week

[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_03]: when we get back

[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_03]: and we appreciate you guys listening

[00:37:13] [SPEAKER_03]: and tuning into this week's

[00:37:15] [SPEAKER_03]: pretty important podcast

[00:37:16] [SPEAKER_03]: and we'll catch you guys next week

[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_03]: when we get back

[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_00]: yes god bless you guys

[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_00]: have a great life

[00:37:22] [SPEAKER_00]: we have a great day

[00:37:24] [SPEAKER_02]: have a great life

[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_02]: like they're

[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_02]: like they're never gonna come back

[00:37:27] [SPEAKER_02]: no but that was a podcast

[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_02]: guys please come back

[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_02]: and listen to the podcast

[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_02]: don't send them off forever

[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_02]: no

[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_00]: okay

[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_00]: have the best life

[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_02]: thank you guys for tuning in

[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_00]: your best life starts now

[00:37:37] [SPEAKER_01]: thank you for spending your time with us

[00:37:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I hope you learned something inspiring today

[00:37:42] [SPEAKER_01]: God bless

[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll see you next week

[00:37:45] [SPEAKER_01]: thank you for listening

[00:37:47] [SPEAKER_01]: to this episode

[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_01]: pretty and punk

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_01]: part

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_01]: we hope to see you next week

[00:37:54] [SPEAKER_01]: God bless

[00:37:55] [SPEAKER_01]: we love you