Finding Value in the Hard Times

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[00:00:55] It was, they were almost like tests for us

[00:00:59] And having those under our belt made us stronger

[00:01:03] We realized coming out of each one of those problems

[00:01:06] Each one of those mountains that we had to climb

[00:01:09] Um, we, we realized how strong we were

[00:01:14] And how, um, valuable the company was

[00:01:17] Exactly

[00:01:18] And that, that we could, that it was actually worth fighting for

[00:01:22] But no

[00:01:29] Ooh, that's better, right babe?

[00:01:33] Yeah!

[00:01:35] Yeah

[00:01:38] She founded an architectural concrete company

[00:01:41] He founded a hundred million dollar clothing company

[00:01:44] She took the world by storm as a social media star

[00:01:47] He took the world by storm as a famous serial entrepreneur

[00:01:51] Together we started a business

[00:01:52] And had babies

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[00:02:26] Welcome back to the Pretty and Punk podcast

[00:02:29] My name is Dan Caldwell

[00:02:31] And as always, I'm here with my beautiful wife

[00:02:34] Ildico Ferenzi

[00:02:37] Ildico Ferenzi

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[00:02:39] And we have some great stuff for you today

[00:02:42] We have another great podcast

[00:02:44] And it's something that we both have lived through

[00:02:47] And I just think it's important

[00:02:49] It's a reminder

[00:02:50] It's things that you guys probably know deep in your heart

[00:02:54] But it just needs to be said

[00:02:56] And that's the value of hard times

[00:02:59] That we all

[00:03:01] You know, not everybody's gone through really hard times

[00:03:04] But I think the people who have gone through really hard times

[00:03:08] Can relate to what we're going to talk about today

[00:03:12] Yes

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[00:04:21] In my life experience

[00:04:23] The most valuable advice I had ever gotten

[00:04:28] Was from the people that have gone through

[00:04:33] Incredibly hard times

[00:04:35] And overcome them

[00:04:36] And this is something that I will never forget

[00:04:40] And I remember my mother

[00:04:42] Who's my role model

[00:04:44] My hero

[00:04:45] She said the same thing

[00:04:48] And I could never understand

[00:04:50] At some point

[00:04:52] You know in my youth

[00:04:53] Why she had such a hard life

[00:04:56] And why we were going through the things

[00:04:58] That we were going through

[00:04:59] Why did she have to work so hard

[00:05:01] Why did she lose her son

[00:05:04] That was incredibly perfect for our family

[00:05:08] He wasn't a bad boy

[00:05:09] He was a good boy

[00:05:10] He died actually trying to put bread on the table

[00:05:14] For my mom and I

[00:05:15] Why do these people have to go through such hard times?

[00:05:20] Well could it quite possibly be

[00:05:22] That those are the people

[00:05:27] That have incredible lessons

[00:05:31] For us all to learn from

[00:05:33] Yeah I mean I think

[00:05:34] We learn so much from the hard times

[00:05:37] And if anybody

[00:05:38] You know who's been through these hard times

[00:05:40] Knows this

[00:05:40] Is that you get that resilience

[00:05:44] And if you don't know

[00:05:45] It's like having dark and light

[00:05:48] That you don't understand what light is

[00:05:51] If you don't have dark

[00:05:53] That's right

[00:05:53] If you don't have that darkness

[00:05:55] You don't understand what light is about

[00:05:57] That's right

[00:05:58] And you know

[00:05:59] When they say

[00:06:00] That you know

[00:06:01] Diamonds are made from coal

[00:06:03] From that pressure

[00:06:04] That comes from

[00:06:05] Yes I love that

[00:06:06] From you know

[00:06:08] That pressure on coal

[00:06:09] Eventually over time

[00:06:11] Creates diamonds

[00:06:12] Because you know

[00:06:13] That pressure that comes on us

[00:06:15] Through those hard times

[00:06:17] Is what builds us

[00:06:19] And builds that resilience

[00:06:21] Right

[00:06:21] And facing and overcoming

[00:06:23] Those challenges

[00:06:24] Builds this mental

[00:06:26] And emotional resilience

[00:06:27] Where you can lean back

[00:06:31] On that experience

[00:06:33] Throughout your life

[00:06:35] And then

[00:06:36] You know

[00:06:37] Those scary times

[00:06:38] You have this comfort

[00:06:41] When they come up

[00:06:42] It's a familiar

[00:06:43] It's a familiar thing

[00:06:44] And you're not gonna lose yourself

[00:06:46] Or crumble

[00:06:47] You're gonna walk in there

[00:06:49] With your armor

[00:06:50] Like a warrior

[00:06:51] And handle the situation

[00:06:53] And if you have a team

[00:06:56] They don't

[00:06:57] Some of them have not

[00:06:58] Gone through these things

[00:07:00] In business

[00:07:00] And in life

[00:07:01] So it

[00:07:03] You are the one

[00:07:05] That these people

[00:07:06] Around you

[00:07:07] Can look up to

[00:07:09] Yeah

[00:07:09] And that's what I felt

[00:07:10] Is so powerful

[00:07:12] For our community

[00:07:14] Not only have we achieved

[00:07:16] Certain things

[00:07:17] But you know

[00:07:19] People that have

[00:07:20] Been born

[00:07:21] With a silver spoon

[00:07:23] Or have had

[00:07:24] Parents that

[00:07:25] And there is nothing

[00:07:26] Wrong with that

[00:07:28] It is just a different

[00:07:30] Path

[00:07:30] I am so grateful

[00:07:33] That people have

[00:07:35] An easy journey

[00:07:37] And then there's other people

[00:07:39] That have a harder journey

[00:07:40] And don't hate

[00:07:42] On that harder journey

[00:07:43] Be grateful

[00:07:44] Don't look at the people

[00:07:45] That have

[00:07:46] The other journey

[00:07:48] Because yes

[00:07:48] God has

[00:07:50] Different

[00:07:50] Plans

[00:07:52] And lessons

[00:07:53] And

[00:07:55] Assignments

[00:07:56] For different people

[00:07:57] And they are

[00:07:58] At different levels

[00:07:59] He knows

[00:08:00] That if you were

[00:08:02] Given challenges

[00:08:03] And hard times

[00:08:04] Listen

[00:08:05] Write it down

[00:08:06] If you need to

[00:08:07] That if you were

[00:08:08] Given those

[00:08:09] Hard times

[00:08:10] And those challenges

[00:08:11] It is only

[00:08:12] Because he already

[00:08:14] Knew that you

[00:08:14] Could handle them

[00:08:15] Okay

[00:08:16] Yeah

[00:08:17] And I think that

[00:08:18] You know

[00:08:18] I almost feel sorry

[00:08:19] For people that

[00:08:20] Don't

[00:08:21] That grow up

[00:08:22] Like that

[00:08:23] Who grow up

[00:08:24] That with

[00:08:24] Privilege

[00:08:25] Because

[00:08:25] It's

[00:08:26] You know

[00:08:27] I remember

[00:08:28] I remember

[00:08:29] Being in a place

[00:08:30] Where I was in

[00:08:30] A really bad

[00:08:31] Spot

[00:08:32] And I didn't

[00:08:32] Have

[00:08:33] You know

[00:08:33] I didn't know

[00:08:34] What I was

[00:08:34] Going to do

[00:08:34] With my life

[00:08:35] And I just

[00:08:36] Lost my job

[00:08:37] And I'm trying

[00:08:37] To figure out

[00:08:38] How I'm going

[00:08:38] To create

[00:08:39] Something

[00:08:39] You know

[00:08:40] Start to

[00:08:41] Get back

[00:08:41] On track

[00:08:42] Again

[00:08:42] And it just

[00:08:43] Really put me

[00:08:45] In a bad

[00:08:45] Spot

[00:08:45] And those

[00:08:47] Hard times

[00:08:48] Are you

[00:08:49] Know

[00:08:49] Where you

[00:08:49] Are

[00:08:50] Where you

[00:08:51] Build yourself

[00:08:52] Where you

[00:08:53] Learn about

[00:08:54] Yourself

[00:08:54] And you

[00:08:55] Learn what

[00:08:55] You're able

[00:08:56] To deal

[00:08:57] With

[00:08:58] And you have

[00:08:59] That hunger

[00:08:59] Yeah

[00:09:00] That it's

[00:09:00] Hard to have

[00:09:01] I just

[00:09:02] I can't even

[00:09:03] Imagine being

[00:09:04] In that place

[00:09:04] Where you

[00:09:06] Know

[00:09:07] You didn't

[00:09:07] Grow up

[00:09:07] Like that

[00:09:08] So you

[00:09:08] Never

[00:09:09] Learned to

[00:09:10] Have that

[00:09:11] Hunger

[00:09:11] Of

[00:09:12] You know

[00:09:13] Because

[00:09:13] I think

[00:09:14] At that

[00:09:14] Time

[00:09:14] Especially

[00:09:15] At that

[00:09:15] Time

[00:09:16] And even

[00:09:16] Nowadays

[00:09:16] Even now

[00:09:17] That your

[00:09:18] Mind is

[00:09:19] Constantly

[00:09:20] Trying to

[00:09:21] Create something

[00:09:22] It's

[00:09:22] Constantly

[00:09:23] Trying to

[00:09:23] Figure out

[00:09:24] Where am

[00:09:24] I

[00:09:52] Say I

[00:09:52] I feel

[00:09:52] Sorry

[00:09:53] I feel

[00:09:54] You wish

[00:09:55] That they

[00:09:56] Could

[00:09:56] Experience

[00:09:57] That

[00:09:58] Exactly

[00:09:58] But that's

[00:09:59] The thing

[00:09:59] That is

[00:10:00] Why you

[00:10:00] Need to

[00:10:01] Embrace

[00:10:01] The friends

[00:10:02] That have

[00:10:03] Gone through

[00:10:03] Those things

[00:10:04] Because you

[00:10:05] Can

[00:10:05] Vicariously

[00:10:06] Live through

[00:10:07] What they've

[00:10:08] Gone through

[00:10:09] I know

[00:10:09] They're not

[00:10:10] Going to

[00:10:10] Feel it

[00:10:11] In their

[00:10:11] Core

[00:10:11] But some

[00:10:12] People

[00:10:13] Were not

[00:10:14] Meant to

[00:10:14] Survive

[00:10:15] That

[00:10:15] Do you

[00:10:16] Know what I

[00:10:16] Mean

[00:10:16] Like as

[00:10:17] I said

[00:10:17] God only

[00:10:18] Chooses

[00:10:19] Certain people

[00:10:19] To live

[00:10:20] A certain

[00:10:21] Experience

[00:10:21] A certain

[00:10:21] Path

[00:10:22] So I

[00:10:23] Would rather

[00:10:23] See the

[00:10:24] People that

[00:10:24] Are living

[00:10:25] The hard

[00:10:25] Times

[00:10:26] Embrace

[00:10:27] That

[00:10:27] That

[00:10:28] That power

[00:10:28] You know

[00:10:29] That power

[00:10:30] Is in their

[00:10:31] Purpose

[00:10:31] And as you

[00:10:32] Were saying

[00:10:32] It's the

[00:10:33] Hard times

[00:10:34] And I

[00:10:34] Was saying

[00:10:35] This before

[00:10:35] Too

[00:10:36] It's the

[00:10:36] Hard

[00:10:36] Times

[00:10:37] And I

[00:10:38] Guess

[00:10:38] That's

[00:10:38] Where you're

[00:10:39] Like I

[00:10:39] Wish they

[00:10:39] Could have

[00:10:40] Felt this

[00:10:40] Because the

[00:10:41] Hard times

[00:10:41] Often

[00:10:42] Require

[00:10:42] The creative

[00:10:43] Solutions

[00:10:44] And that

[00:10:45] Critical

[00:10:45] Thinking

[00:10:46] That you

[00:10:47] Have to

[00:10:47] Figure out

[00:10:48] In the

[00:10:48] Moment

[00:10:48] And successfully

[00:10:50] Navigating

[00:10:51] This

[00:10:51] These

[00:10:51] Situations

[00:10:52] Sharpen

[00:10:53] Problem

[00:10:54] Solving

[00:10:54] Skills

[00:10:55] Which are

[00:10:56] Invaluable

[00:10:56] In achieving

[00:10:57] Success

[00:10:58] So I

[00:10:58] Understand

[00:11:00] You learn

[00:11:01] Those skills

[00:11:01] They say

[00:11:02] Forged in

[00:11:03] Fire

[00:11:03] Right

[00:11:04] Right

[00:11:04] You're not

[00:11:05] You're not

[00:11:06] Going to

[00:11:06] Learn those

[00:11:06] Skills unless

[00:11:07] You're going

[00:11:08] Through those

[00:11:08] Situations

[00:11:09] You know

[00:11:10] You can

[00:11:11] Go through

[00:11:11] You can

[00:11:12] Be in

[00:11:13] College

[00:11:13] And

[00:11:14] Someone can

[00:11:15] You know

[00:11:15] Go through

[00:11:16] The motions

[00:11:16] With you

[00:11:17] And tell

[00:11:17] You what

[00:11:17] You might

[00:11:18] Be dealing

[00:11:18] With but

[00:11:19] It's just

[00:11:19] Not the

[00:11:20] Same

[00:11:20] It's not

[00:11:21] The same

[00:11:21] But at

[00:11:22] The same

[00:11:22] Time

[00:11:22] You know

[00:11:23] In the

[00:11:23] Colosseum

[00:11:24] And this

[00:11:25] Is a totally

[00:11:25] Different

[00:11:25] Example

[00:11:26] But in

[00:11:26] The Colosseum

[00:11:27] Why did

[00:11:28] So many

[00:11:29] People watch

[00:11:30] Those men

[00:11:30] Fight lions

[00:11:31] Or whatever

[00:11:32] They were

[00:11:33] Fighting

[00:11:33] In the

[00:11:33] Colosseum

[00:11:34] Because

[00:11:34] It was

[00:11:35] So

[00:11:36] Hard to

[00:11:37] Imagine

[00:11:37] You had

[00:11:38] To see

[00:11:38] It in

[00:11:39] Real life

[00:11:39] And

[00:11:40] And you

[00:11:40] Live through

[00:11:41] That

[00:11:41] And we

[00:11:41] Still have

[00:11:42] That

[00:11:42] But then

[00:11:43] I would

[00:11:43] Just say

[00:11:43] It's not

[00:11:44] The same

[00:11:45] As being there

[00:11:45] It's not

[00:11:46] The same

[00:11:46] As being there

[00:11:47] Not the same

[00:11:47] As standing

[00:11:48] In there

[00:11:48] With a lion

[00:11:49] But

[00:11:49] And a sword

[00:11:50] And trying to

[00:11:51] And you know

[00:11:52] Hoping that

[00:11:52] You're going

[00:11:52] To be able

[00:11:53] To get

[00:11:53] Through this

[00:11:53] Okay

[00:11:53] You win

[00:11:54] That one

[00:11:54] For sure

[00:11:55] I'm just

[00:11:56] Saying that

[00:11:57] Like

[00:11:58] It just

[00:11:58] I think

[00:11:59] I believe

[00:12:00] It gives you

[00:12:01] A heads up

[00:12:02] Over

[00:12:03] Oh 100%

[00:12:04] People that are

[00:12:04] In that position

[00:12:05] But not to say

[00:12:05] Because you know

[00:12:06] Guys like

[00:12:07] You know

[00:12:07] Donald Trump

[00:12:09] He

[00:12:09] His dad was

[00:12:10] Already wealthy

[00:12:11] When he

[00:12:12] Was born

[00:12:13] So

[00:12:15] He hadn't

[00:12:15] Ever experienced

[00:12:17] That as far

[00:12:17] As I know

[00:12:18] He hadn't

[00:12:19] Experienced that

[00:12:20] So

[00:12:20] He always

[00:12:22] He had

[00:12:23] Grown up

[00:12:23] In privilege

[00:12:25] But he

[00:12:25] Grew that

[00:12:26] Beyond that

[00:12:27] So what

[00:12:27] Did it take

[00:12:28] You know

[00:12:28] That's

[00:12:29] Probably a whole

[00:12:30] Another podcast

[00:12:30] You know

[00:12:31] What does it

[00:12:31] Take

[00:12:31] And we should

[00:12:32] Do a podcast

[00:12:33] On that

[00:12:33] How do you

[00:12:34] Instill that

[00:12:35] Into your kids

[00:12:36] Because that's

[00:12:37] Such a hard

[00:12:37] Thing to do

[00:12:38] Because you

[00:12:38] Want to do

[00:12:39] Well

[00:12:40] Right

[00:12:40] You know

[00:12:41] Our kids

[00:12:41] Don't have

[00:12:41] That same thing

[00:12:42] So what are

[00:12:43] We doing right

[00:12:43] Now

[00:12:44] How did

[00:12:44] Instill that

[00:12:44] In our

[00:12:45] Kids

[00:12:45] Why are

[00:12:45] They

[00:12:46] Performing

[00:12:47] The way

[00:12:47] That they

[00:12:48] Are

[00:12:48] How do

[00:12:49] They get

[00:12:50] That

[00:12:50] We have

[00:12:50] To self

[00:12:51] Analyze

[00:12:51] And how

[00:12:52] You know

[00:12:52] How are we

[00:12:53] Pushing that

[00:12:53] Into them

[00:12:54] I think

[00:12:54] You and I

[00:12:54] We have a lot

[00:12:55] Of really

[00:12:56] Intelligent

[00:12:56] Friends

[00:12:57] We have a lot

[00:12:58] Of intelligent

[00:12:59] Psychologists

[00:13:00] Friends

[00:13:01] And there's

[00:13:02] Certain things

[00:13:02] That we do

[00:13:03] Not introduce

[00:13:03] To and

[00:13:05] Would not

[00:13:05] Ever

[00:13:06] Introduce to

[00:13:07] Our children

[00:13:07] By a certain

[00:13:08] Age

[00:13:09] Hey

[00:13:09] I thought

[00:13:10] And this is

[00:13:11] No hate

[00:13:12] Or shade

[00:13:12] On anybody

[00:13:13] Because I

[00:13:13] Thought I'd

[00:13:14] Be breastfeeding

[00:13:15] Or nursing

[00:13:16] For three

[00:13:16] To six

[00:13:17] Months

[00:13:18] And then there

[00:13:18] They are

[00:13:19] Both till

[00:13:19] Four years

[00:13:20] Old

[00:13:20] Because I

[00:13:21] Went down

[00:13:21] The rabbit

[00:13:22] Hole

[00:13:22] Whole and

[00:13:23] And I

[00:13:23] Learned

[00:13:24] Everything

[00:13:24] That there

[00:13:25] Was to

[00:13:26] Learn

[00:13:26] And there's

[00:13:26] Still so

[00:13:27] Much more

[00:13:27] To learn

[00:13:28] I am

[00:13:29] Always

[00:13:29] Always

[00:13:30] And guys

[00:13:30] Always

[00:13:31] Be open

[00:13:32] To learning

[00:13:33] Don't think

[00:13:33] That you know

[00:13:34] It all

[00:13:35] And that you're

[00:13:35] The smartest

[00:13:36] In business

[00:13:37] Or you're

[00:13:37] The smartest

[00:13:38] In nutrition

[00:13:39] In nutrition

[00:13:39] Any of

[00:13:39] That stuff

[00:13:40] Always be

[00:13:40] Open to

[00:13:41] Learning

[00:13:41] But I

[00:13:42] Think you

[00:13:42] And I

[00:13:43] Have that

[00:13:43] Mindset

[00:13:44] Where we

[00:13:45] Look at

[00:13:46] You know

[00:13:47] Families that

[00:13:48] Are falling

[00:13:48] Apart

[00:13:48] Or

[00:13:50] Unsuccessful

[00:13:50] Or their

[00:13:51] Kids are

[00:13:51] Glued

[00:13:52] To

[00:13:54] Whatever it

[00:13:55] Is

[00:13:55] They have

[00:13:56] These addiction

[00:13:56] Problems

[00:13:57] At a young

[00:13:57] Age

[00:13:58] Let's face

[00:13:58] It

[00:13:58] It's

[00:13:59] Happening

[00:13:59] Okay

[00:13:59] Let's

[00:14:00] Put it

[00:14:00] Out there

[00:14:00] Because we

[00:14:01] All know

[00:14:01] That there's

[00:14:02] Addiction

[00:14:02] Happening

[00:14:03] In children

[00:14:04] With the

[00:14:05] Phones

[00:14:05] Or video

[00:14:06] Games

[00:14:06] And stuff

[00:14:06] Like that

[00:14:07] So we

[00:14:07] Have

[00:14:07] Just not

[00:14:08] Introduced

[00:14:09] Certain

[00:14:09] Things

[00:14:09] To our

[00:14:10] Children

[00:14:10] Call us

[00:14:11] Mean

[00:14:11] Whatever

[00:14:12] Whatever you

[00:14:13] Want

[00:14:13] It's working

[00:14:13] For our

[00:14:14] Family

[00:14:14] They're

[00:14:15] Finding

[00:14:15] Different

[00:14:15] Things

[00:14:16] To grow

[00:14:17] Their

[00:14:17] Mindset

[00:14:18] Grow

[00:14:18] Their

[00:14:18] Intelligent

[00:14:19] To speak

[00:14:20] Differently

[00:14:21] We

[00:14:21] Really

[00:14:22] Challenge

[00:14:22] Them

[00:14:23] In a

[00:14:23] Way

[00:14:24] That's

[00:14:24] Loving

[00:14:24] And nurturing

[00:14:25] We're

[00:14:26] Challenging

[00:14:27] Them

[00:14:27] We set

[00:14:27] A stage

[00:14:28] For them

[00:14:29] And

[00:14:29] Something

[00:14:30] For them

[00:14:31] To

[00:14:31] But we

[00:14:31] Don't

[00:14:32] Ever

[00:14:32] Force

[00:14:33] Them

[00:14:33] To do

[00:14:33] Anything

[00:14:34] You know

[00:14:34] We don't

[00:14:35] Say oh

[00:14:35] She's gonna

[00:14:36] Be a

[00:14:37] Speaker

[00:14:37] No he

[00:14:38] Wants

[00:14:38] To be

[00:14:38] A speaker

[00:14:39] But if

[00:14:40] That changes

[00:14:40] Tomorrow

[00:14:41] Am I

[00:14:42] Gonna be

[00:14:43] Embarrassed

[00:14:43] Because he

[00:14:44] Has all

[00:14:44] This

[00:14:46] What is

[00:14:47] It

[00:14:47] No I

[00:14:48] Think we

[00:14:48] Both spoke

[00:14:48] About that

[00:14:49] That speaking

[00:14:50] Is gonna

[00:14:50] Help him

[00:14:50] No matter

[00:14:51] What he

[00:14:51] Does

[00:14:51] If he

[00:14:52] Decides

[00:14:52] To go

[00:14:52] Be an

[00:14:53] Engineer

[00:14:53] For NASA

[00:14:54] Or you

[00:14:55] Know he's

[00:14:56] Spoken

[00:14:56] About that

[00:14:57] Or whatever

[00:14:57] It is

[00:14:58] Whatever

[00:14:58] Whatever

[00:14:58] It's gonna

[00:14:59] Open

[00:14:59] The door

[00:15:00] To different

[00:15:00] Experiences

[00:15:01] All the

[00:15:02] Time

[00:15:02] Because he

[00:15:04] Needs to

[00:15:04] Experience

[00:15:04] Different

[00:15:05] Things too

[00:15:06] Hey let's

[00:15:06] Go play

[00:15:07] Baseball

[00:15:08] No I

[00:15:09] Don't

[00:15:09] Want to

[00:15:09] Let's

[00:15:10] Go play

[00:15:10] Basketball

[00:15:11] I

[00:15:11] Don't

[00:15:12] Want to

[00:15:23] Okay well

[00:15:25] I'm not

[00:15:25] Speak in

[00:15:26] Front

[00:15:26] Of

[00:15:26] Thousands

[00:15:26] Of

[00:15:27] People

[00:15:27] I don't

[00:15:28] Guys I

[00:15:30] Don't

[00:15:30] Think I

[00:15:30] Would have

[00:15:30] Done it

[00:15:31] I talked

[00:15:32] To him

[00:15:32] I said

[00:15:33] You don't

[00:15:34] Have to

[00:15:34] Do this

[00:15:35] And he

[00:15:36] Said I

[00:15:36] Want to

[00:15:37] Do it

[00:15:37] For grandma

[00:15:38] I'm

[00:15:38] Going to

[00:15:39] Do it

[00:15:39] For grandma

[00:15:40] You know

[00:15:41] So it's

[00:15:42] Just like

[00:15:43] You can't

[00:15:43] Force anybody

[00:15:45] Into an

[00:15:45] Environment

[00:15:46] You have

[00:15:47] To give

[00:15:47] Them the

[00:15:48] Choice

[00:15:48] In a

[00:15:49] Supporting

[00:15:49] And loving

[00:15:50] Way

[00:15:51] Don't

[00:15:51] Be

[00:15:52] Selfish

[00:15:53] And make

[00:15:54] Them

[00:15:54] I was

[00:15:54] Just listening

[00:15:55] To

[00:15:55] I can't

[00:15:56] Remember

[00:15:56] Oh gosh

[00:15:57] Mommy

[00:15:59] Brain

[00:15:59] I was

[00:16:00] Just listening

[00:16:00] To something

[00:16:01] But they

[00:16:01] Were saying

[00:16:02] Do not

[00:16:04] Selfishly

[00:16:04] Push your

[00:16:05] Children

[00:16:06] Into your

[00:16:07] Own

[00:16:07] Dreams

[00:16:08] And wants

[00:16:09] Because that

[00:16:10] Is the

[00:16:10] Most toxic

[00:16:11] Thing that

[00:16:12] A parent

[00:16:12] Can do

[00:16:13] Say I

[00:16:14] Was a

[00:16:15] Ballerina

[00:16:16] Dancer

[00:16:16] And I

[00:16:16] Just forced

[00:16:17] My daughter

[00:16:18] To also

[00:16:18] Become a

[00:16:19] Ballerina

[00:16:20] Dancer

[00:16:20] Or entrepreneur

[00:16:21] Or whatever

[00:16:21] It is

[00:16:21] That's

[00:16:22] Incredibly

[00:16:23] Selfish

[00:16:23] And toxic

[00:16:24] But expose

[00:16:25] Them to

[00:16:26] Everything

[00:16:26] See where

[00:16:28] They are

[00:16:29] Trying to

[00:16:30] Go into

[00:16:31] And then

[00:16:32] There's going

[00:16:33] To be all

[00:16:33] Kinds of

[00:16:34] Challenges

[00:16:35] And hardships

[00:16:36] But if they

[00:16:37] Really love it

[00:16:38] They're going

[00:16:39] To come

[00:16:39] Through the

[00:16:40] Other side

[00:16:41] So they

[00:16:42] Don't

[00:16:42] Necessarily

[00:16:43] Have to have

[00:16:44] Gone through

[00:16:44] Hard things

[00:16:45] Daniel and

[00:16:45] Destiny

[00:16:46] Have

[00:16:46] They've gone

[00:16:47] Through

[00:16:49] You know

[00:16:50] They're

[00:16:51] Grieving

[00:16:52] And all

[00:16:52] Children are

[00:16:53] Going to

[00:16:53] Go through

[00:16:54] This

[00:16:54] We're all

[00:16:54] Going to

[00:16:54] Lose our

[00:16:55] Grandparents

[00:16:56] And if we

[00:16:56] Were close

[00:16:57] To them

[00:16:57] That's

[00:16:57] Something

[00:16:58] That you

[00:16:59] Go through

[00:16:59] But how

[00:17:00] Do you

[00:17:00] Handle

[00:17:01] Those things

[00:17:01] Because I've

[00:17:02] Had loss

[00:17:03] I think that

[00:17:04] My loss

[00:17:05] Helped them

[00:17:06] Go through

[00:17:07] Things

[00:17:07] It wasn't

[00:17:08] My first

[00:17:09] Rodeo

[00:17:09] And you

[00:17:11] Know

[00:17:11] If something

[00:17:12] Daniel's

[00:17:13] Doing

[00:17:14] Because he

[00:17:15] Wants to

[00:17:15] Try all

[00:17:15] Different

[00:17:16] Businesses

[00:17:16] He wants

[00:17:17] To do

[00:17:17] A lemonade

[00:17:18] Stand

[00:17:18] And you

[00:17:19] And I

[00:17:20] Are like

[00:17:20] No no

[00:17:21] Let's

[00:17:21] Maybe not

[00:17:22] Do that

[00:17:22] Because we

[00:17:23] Know that

[00:17:24] It's not

[00:17:24] Going to

[00:17:25] Make the

[00:17:25] Most money

[00:17:26] But he

[00:17:26] Needs to

[00:17:27] Go through

[00:17:28] The

[00:17:30] You know

[00:17:30] Maybe he

[00:17:30] Won't make

[00:17:31] Money

[00:17:31] He wants

[00:17:32] To do

[00:17:32] Organic

[00:17:33] Lemon

[00:17:33] We need

[00:17:33] To let

[00:17:34] him

[00:17:34] Do it

[00:17:35] So that

[00:17:35] He can

[00:17:36] Experience

[00:17:36] It

[00:17:37] And figure

[00:17:38] Out what

[00:17:38] He likes

[00:17:38] And doesn't

[00:17:39] Like about

[00:17:39] It

[00:17:39] And I

[00:17:40] Think

[00:17:40] That

[00:17:40] You know

[00:17:41] Even

[00:17:42] In

[00:17:42] When I

[00:17:43] Was

[00:17:43] I

[00:17:44] Honestly

[00:17:45] Believe

[00:17:45] We

[00:17:46] Had so

[00:17:47] Many

[00:17:47] In those

[00:17:47] First

[00:17:48] Five

[00:17:48] Years

[00:17:48] Of

[00:17:48] Building

[00:17:48] Our

[00:17:49] Business

[00:17:49] There

[00:17:50] Were

[00:17:50] So

[00:17:50] Many

[00:17:50] Pitfalls

[00:17:51] And so

[00:17:51] Many

[00:17:51] Things

[00:17:52] That

[00:17:52] We

[00:17:52] Were

[00:17:52] Going

[00:17:52] Through

[00:17:53] I

[00:17:53] But I

[00:17:54] But I

[00:17:54] Honestly

[00:17:55] Believe

[00:17:55] If we

[00:17:56] Wouldn't

[00:17:56] Have

[00:17:57] Gone

[00:17:57] Through

[00:18:13] Mountains

[00:18:13] Mountains

[00:18:14] We

[00:18:14] Had to

[00:18:14] Climb

[00:18:16] We

[00:18:16] We

[00:18:17] Realized

[00:18:17] How

[00:18:18] Strong

[00:18:18] We

[00:18:19] Were

[00:18:19] And how

[00:18:21] Valuable

[00:18:22] The company

[00:18:22] Was

[00:18:23] And that

[00:18:23] We

[00:18:24] Could

[00:18:24] That

[00:18:25] It

[00:18:25] Was

[00:18:25] Actually

[00:18:26] Worth

[00:18:26] Fighting

[00:18:27] For

[00:18:27] And even

[00:18:28] In the

[00:18:28] Beginning

[00:18:29] When we

[00:18:29] Really

[00:18:30] Didn't

[00:18:30] Have

[00:18:30] Anything

[00:18:30] We

[00:18:31] Had

[00:18:31] Nowhere

[00:18:31] To

[00:18:31] Go

[00:18:32] But

[00:18:32] Up

[00:18:33] So

[00:18:33] When

[00:18:33] You're

[00:18:34] In

[00:18:34] That

[00:18:34] Position

[00:18:34] Of

[00:18:35] Nowhere

[00:18:35] To

[00:18:35] Go

[00:18:36] But

[00:18:36] Up

[00:18:36] And

[00:18:37] You've

[00:18:37] Gone

[00:18:37] Through

[00:18:38] These

[00:18:38] Things

[00:18:38] In

[00:18:38] Your

[00:18:39] Life

[00:18:39] And

[00:18:39] You're

[00:18:39] Like

[00:18:40] Sometimes

[00:18:40] You're

[00:18:41] Just

[00:18:41] You

[00:18:42] Know

[00:18:42] There's

[00:18:42] That

[00:18:42] PC

[00:18:42] You

[00:18:42] Just

[00:18:43] Wants

[00:18:43] To

[00:18:43] Show

[00:18:43] People

[00:18:44] You

[00:18:44] Know

[00:18:44] That

[00:18:45] Show

[00:18:45] This

[00:18:46] I

[00:18:46] I

[00:18:47] I

[00:18:47] I

[00:18:47] I've

[00:18:47] Been

[00:18:47] There

[00:18:49] But

[00:18:49] It's

[00:18:49] Kind

[00:18:50] Of

[00:18:50] Toxic

[00:18:50] But

[00:18:51] I

[00:18:51] Understand

[00:18:51] It's

[00:18:52] Like

[00:18:52] You

[00:18:53] Want

[00:18:54] To

[00:18:54] Push

[00:18:54] So

[00:18:55] Hard

[00:18:55] You

[00:18:56] You

[00:18:57] Got

[00:18:57] These

[00:18:57] Eyes

[00:18:58] Watching

[00:18:59] You

[00:18:59] And

[00:18:59] You

[00:19:00] Cannot

[00:19:00] Fail

[00:19:01] You

[00:19:11] Fuel

[00:19:11] Fuel

[00:19:12] Fuel

[00:19:12] But

[00:19:13] Back

[00:19:13] To

[00:19:14] What

[00:19:14] You

[00:19:14] Were

[00:19:14] Saying

[00:19:14] People

[00:19:15] Who

[00:19:15] Have

[00:19:16] Struggled

[00:19:16] They

[00:19:17] Appreciate

[00:19:18] Their

[00:19:18] Success

[00:19:19] More

[00:19:19] Deeply

[00:19:20] You

[00:19:20] Know

[00:19:20] There's

[00:19:21] That

[00:19:21] The

[00:19:21] Win

[00:19:22] Is

[00:19:22] That

[00:19:22] Much

[00:19:22] Sweeter

[00:19:23] Because

[00:19:24] You

[00:19:24] Appreciate

[00:19:25] It

[00:19:25] You

[00:19:26] Know

[00:19:26] What

[00:19:26] It's

[00:19:26] Like

[00:19:27] To

[00:19:27] Not

[00:19:28] Have

[00:19:28] Bread

[00:19:28] On

[00:19:29] Your

[00:19:29] Table

[00:19:29] And

[00:19:30] Then

[00:19:30] Having

[00:19:30] The

[00:19:31] Abundance

[00:19:31] Well

[00:19:31] You're

[00:19:32] Definitely

[00:19:32] Not

[00:19:33] Going

[00:19:33] To

[00:19:33] Be

[00:19:33] Wasting

[00:19:34] The

[00:19:34] Food

[00:19:34] And

[00:19:35] You

[00:19:35] Don't

[00:19:35] Want

[00:19:35] to

[00:19:35] Lose

[00:19:36] It

[00:19:36] Again

[00:19:36] So

[00:19:41] You

[00:19:42] Were

[00:19:45] Having

[00:19:48] To

[00:19:48] Ration

[00:19:49] Your

[00:19:49] Food

[00:19:49] For

[00:19:50] Years

[00:19:50] Maybe

[00:19:50] Because

[00:19:51] Of

[00:19:51] War

[00:19:51] Or

[00:19:51] Whatever

[00:19:52] You

[00:19:52] Come

[00:19:52] Out

[00:19:53] Of

[00:19:53] That

[00:19:53] Going

[00:19:55] I'm

[00:19:55] Never

[00:19:56] Going

[00:19:56] To

[00:19:56] Run

[00:19:56] Out

[00:19:56] Of

[00:19:56] Food

[00:19:57] Again

[00:19:58] I'm

[00:19:58] Not

[00:19:58] Going

[00:19:58] To

[00:19:58] Waste

[00:20:00] It

[00:20:00] Or

[00:20:01] Whatever

[00:20:01] That

[00:20:01] Is

[00:20:01] You

[00:20:01] Put

[00:20:02] Plans

[00:20:02] In

[00:20:02] Place

[00:20:03] And

[00:20:03] It's

[00:20:03] The

[00:20:03] Same

[00:20:04] Thing

[00:20:04] I

[00:20:04] Think

[00:20:04] That

[00:20:04] You

[00:20:05] Do

[00:20:05] In

[00:20:05] In

[00:20:06] Any

[00:20:06] Of

[00:20:07] Your

[00:20:11] You

[00:20:11] Protect

[00:20:11] Your

[00:20:12] Family

[00:20:12] More

[00:20:12] Sometimes

[00:20:13] When

[00:20:13] Something

[00:20:14] Bad

[00:20:14] Has

[00:20:14] Happened

[00:20:15] To

[00:20:15] You

[00:20:15] Yeah

[00:20:16] That's

[00:20:16] True

[00:20:17] That's

[00:20:18] 100%

[00:20:18] True

[00:20:19] Yeah

[00:20:19] And

[00:20:19] That's

[00:20:20] What

[00:20:20] You're

[00:20:20] Learning

[00:20:20] The

[00:20:21] Value

[00:20:21] Of

[00:20:22] Going

[00:20:22] Through

[00:20:23] Hard

[00:20:23] Times

[00:20:23] Whatever

[00:20:24] They

[00:20:24] Might

[00:20:24] Be

[00:20:25] Whether

[00:20:25] That

[00:20:25] Be

[00:20:25] In

[00:20:25] Business

[00:20:26] Or

[00:20:26] Money

[00:20:26] Or

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