Building a Strong Marriage: The Essential Keys That Your Marriage Needs

[00:00:00] It was our mindset that connected and a lot of the struggles and obstacles that we overcame

[00:00:07] They were in alignment, different.

[00:00:11] We both grew up in different countries.

[00:00:13] We had different lives but a lot of the mindset of what pulled us through those obstacles

[00:00:19] I feel like we connected.

[00:00:30] Uh... no.

[00:00:33] Ooh, that's better right babe?

[00:00:35] Yeah!

[00:00:37] Yeah.

[00:00:40] She founded an architectural concrete company.

[00:00:43] He founded a hundred million dollar clothing company.

[00:00:46] She ticked the World By Storm as a social media star.

[00:00:49] He took the World By Storm as a famous serial entrepreneur.

[00:00:53] Together we started the business and had babies.

[00:00:56] And now we're figuring out the best ways to do both.

[00:00:58] Join us as we learn from other entrepreneurs going through the same life struggle.

[00:01:03] As they share their life hacks about success, love, and kids.

[00:01:07] And everything in between.

[00:01:09] The meaning of life is to find your gift.

[00:01:13] The purpose of life is to give it away.

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[00:01:26] Welcome to the Pretty Among Podcast.

[00:01:28] My name is Dan Caldwell.

[00:01:31] And you're supposed to say it.

[00:01:34] I'm waiting for you to call me beautiful.

[00:01:35] Um, and I'm here with my beautiful wife.

[00:01:38] You're the co-founder.

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[00:02:39] We're horrible at that part.

[00:02:41] Um, but yeah, it's a great podcast.

[00:02:43] I think we had some good discussions about this before we jumped on.

[00:02:46] Yeah, we had a talk.

[00:02:47] Dan and I.

[00:02:49] And we were just really thinking about our relationship.

[00:02:54] And we've had a lot of ups and downs.

[00:02:56] Let's be honest.

[00:02:58] But there are some key things.

[00:03:01] And not just three, but we wanted to pull three important things that bond us together like glue.

[00:03:08] And this mindset, these commonalities, these three pillars,

[00:03:13] were something that we saw each other from the beginning of our relationship when we became friends.

[00:03:20] Well, I think it's what attracted us to each other.

[00:03:22] Oh, yeah.

[00:03:23] So it's not necessarily what you do as a couple or the things that you incorporate in your marriage.

[00:03:31] It's more of those beliefs that I feel like you need going into marriage so that a marriage will work.

[00:03:37] So that it works because if, you know, you don't see it.

[00:03:41] I, on certain things on the beliefs that you stand on,

[00:03:45] I think you're going to have a really hard time in a long-term relationship.

[00:03:50] That's right.

[00:03:51] And what was the first thing that we?

[00:03:55] Well, I think the big thing was having a common purpose.

[00:03:59] Mm-hmm.

[00:03:59] I think that from the beginning, I mean obviously we were both entrepreneurs when we met.

[00:04:04] I think it's what attracted you were strong female entrepreneurs.

[00:04:09] You were way out of my league when I met you.

[00:04:12] Of course, you were chasing me around.

[00:04:15] And that's why I don't like it.

[00:04:18] And I just thought that, you know, like this is the type of person I want to be with.

[00:04:23] I want to be with somebody who I can have conversations at the dinner table with even though I don't know.

[00:04:29] I mean, we've tried to limit those as much as we can sometimes.

[00:04:33] You know, and have regular conversations too, but we, I love talking business with you.

[00:04:38] I think it was our mindset that connected.

[00:04:40] Yes.

[00:04:40] And a lot of the struggles and obstacles that we overcame, they were in alignment.

[00:04:49] Different, we both grew up in different countries.

[00:04:53] We had different lives, but a lot of the mindset of what pulled us through those

[00:04:58] obstacles, I feel like we connected very tightly.

[00:05:05] We became best friends.

[00:05:06] Best friends before anything.

[00:05:09] So I know he says that I was chasing him around.

[00:05:11] That's not true.

[00:05:12] He wanted to meet me for the longest time.

[00:05:15] But no, but listen, listen, listen.

[00:05:18] I'm, I was not going to go and jump into something that I wanted to take my time.

[00:05:27] And I feel like a lot of overachievers, high performance businessmen.

[00:05:33] They, I think they respect that in a woman.

[00:05:37] And that's, that's my mindset.

[00:05:40] I'm valuable.

[00:05:41] I'm not, I'm going to wait.

[00:05:43] I'm going to take it slow.

[00:05:44] I'm not going to jump in bed with anybody.

[00:05:46] I'm not going to be kissing nobody in the beginning.

[00:05:48] It's not going to happen overnight.

[00:05:50] I want to build a friendship before anything.

[00:05:53] So I thought you were just playing hard to get.

[00:05:55] No.

[00:05:55] I think we're actually boyfriend and girlfriend for like six months probably.

[00:06:00] Seven, seven somewhere out there.

[00:06:02] Well, I know our first real, our first real date is boyfriend and girlfriend was the super bowl.

[00:06:08] So that's like in what, gender, January or February or beginning of February there.

[00:06:13] So yes, and we met like July.

[00:06:14] But we took our time and you respected me as a woman, as a business woman,

[00:06:20] and my dreams, and my aspirations.

[00:06:23] And I did the same for you.

[00:06:25] So mindset was a huge part of that.

[00:06:28] Yeah, I can't, that common purpose.

[00:06:30] And I think having that same why, you know, that why that we had to get the why are we doing what we're doing.

[00:06:35] And a goal, our goals together.

[00:06:36] That was really important.

[00:06:39] Once we started dating, we realized that we wanted to build something together.

[00:06:43] We didn't know what it was, but we wanted to build something together.

[00:06:46] That was going to.

[00:06:48] And we talked about that all.

[00:06:49] Change that.

[00:06:50] That's what we had had your thing and I had my thing.

[00:06:54] And what was kind of, you know, we were in a weird way, in an area where we were both getting out of our things.

[00:07:04] And so it was almost like perfect timing.

[00:07:06] Like God's will that we had this perfect timing to meet each other.

[00:07:09] And because it was, we had the opportunity to have a common purpose together.

[00:07:16] Yeah, yeah.

[00:07:16] You're going to make me, what are you doing to me?

[00:07:19] But do it, they'll look at me like that.

[00:07:22] And you know, like, just make a good emotion too.

[00:07:25] You don't have to get it.

[00:07:25] Baseball team, football team.

[00:07:28] When you have a common purpose together, you're so much stronger.

[00:07:32] You were the analogy you had for the horses thing.

[00:07:35] You had like, we were talking about it last week.

[00:07:37] We were so strong on our own.

[00:07:40] And those race horses, they could pull a lot of weight by themselves.

[00:07:44] Don't get me wrong, they're powerful.

[00:07:46] But when you set them side by side and you give them that same weight, they could pull more than that.

[00:07:53] 10x that.

[00:07:55] Yeah, they can pull like seven, I think it's seven x their weight or seven x the weight that they can pull by themselves.

[00:08:01] But you and I together, we can ten it together.

[00:08:05] And I felt that and I knew that and everybody saw that within us.

[00:08:10] So we were looking for something to do together.

[00:08:13] So the goal that was so important and now with this podcast, it's crazy how it all came together.

[00:08:19] Like in the hardest part of our lives, it just boom.

[00:08:24] So easily, God was like, here you go.

[00:08:27] This is it.

[00:08:28] This is the thing that you guys can do together.

[00:08:30] Absolutely.

[00:08:31] Other than the businesses we did together.

[00:08:33] But I feel like both of us, we really enjoy sparking something in our audience in our,

[00:08:39] all around the world.

[00:08:41] We love touching people all around the world, bringing people together, saving marriages.

[00:08:48] I don't even know how to put it into words.

[00:08:50] I think that every marriage needs some version of that.

[00:08:54] It doesn't have to be a podcast but you guys kind of find that thing, that thing, that thing, whatever it is.

[00:09:01] It took us years to figure it out.

[00:09:03] Also what about health?

[00:09:05] I mean we had that in common as well.

[00:09:07] That's true.

[00:09:08] I think that's a common part of us.

[00:09:08] I'm both wanted to eat and I think you kind of, you know, it's even in some ways someone can pull you over to their side.

[00:09:15] Maybe I didn't.

[00:09:17] I always wanted to be healthy and eat healthy and work out.

[00:09:22] But I don't, I think you brought me into that world even deeper.

[00:09:26] And which is a good thing.

[00:09:27] You know, it's like we can have, you can have those things where your purposes are aligned.

[00:09:32] But you may be deeper down that rabbit hole than I was.

[00:09:38] And I find my way over there because I want to be there.

[00:09:41] I want to be there with you.

[00:09:43] We want to have our purposes aligned together.

[00:09:45] Yeah, that was exciting building our health journey together.

[00:09:49] And then the other thing that is important for us now.

[00:09:52] Now we're in a different part of our lives where we pour into our children.

[00:09:56] And I feel we have a very same vision for our family, for our children.

[00:10:04] And including them on that health journey being very, I mean they don't see it as strict.

[00:10:11] But it's how we brought them up.

[00:10:13] And I'm no slipping.

[00:10:17] I just want whole foods, healthy and especially dealing with my health.

[00:10:23] Yes.

[00:10:23] Struggle when I was on the cover of magazines and you know, you were looking the best.

[00:10:29] And just out of, it could have been any one of us down.

[00:10:32] It could have been any one of us.

[00:10:34] And I see happening to our friends.

[00:10:36] But I happen to get, you know, sick.

[00:10:40] I don't know.

[00:10:41] I don't even like to talk about it.

[00:10:43] But it's an eye opener.

[00:10:45] And you learn from it.

[00:10:47] And it just made me want to pour into my children and my family that much more.

[00:10:52] Like I will literally spend so much more time in the kitchen knowing that everybody is going to benefit from the food that goes, you know, the body.

[00:11:03] It's our temple.

[00:11:04] Yeah.

[00:11:04] Yeah.

[00:11:06] And I think that's important that you and I appreciate it.

[00:11:10] And I think I tell you, and I told you today, I appreciate when you make food like that because it not only does it taste great,

[00:11:17] but it really, I think we feel better when you eat better.

[00:11:22] And that's always, you've always done that.

[00:11:25] Right.

[00:11:25] And our audience can study it a little.

[00:11:27] I love it.

[00:11:29] I love it.

[00:11:30] I love studying how just cooking from scratch everything that you can do as naturally as possible.

[00:11:39] I want to go back to my grandmother's ways.

[00:11:42] She, they had a farm and they had a business together with my grandfather.

[00:11:47] And if you can just study a little bit about what clean whole food does for you and your body, you can literally heal so many things that are going on that you may be dealing with.

[00:12:00] I don't know.

[00:12:00] That's another podcast in its phone.

[00:12:02] Phone, bra, bone marrow.

[00:12:04] I'd never had this stuff before when I first time I ever saw you scooping that stuff out of the middle of a bone.

[00:12:10] I almost lost my mind, but I just never seen anything like that before.

[00:12:15] But I get it now and going down that rabbit hole and studying and looking at some of the things you're looking at watching some of the videos together.

[00:12:23] I know that we're aligned in our purpose there.

[00:12:26] And you look so much younger.

[00:12:28] I made you young.

[00:12:29] I'll take that.

[00:12:31] I'll take that.

[00:12:32] Okay.

[00:12:32] Now we're going to talk about the next one.

[00:12:33] Okay.

[00:12:34] So number two guys is aligned principles.

[00:12:37] And this is also something that has to come up in the beginning.

[00:12:42] I mean, what about your faith?

[00:12:46] You guys have to have somewhat of a parallel faith.

[00:12:50] I mean, it has to be.

[00:12:51] If you believe in God, it's just going to be easier if you both believe in God.

[00:12:57] Yes.

[00:12:57] Right?

[00:12:58] If you have a faith in your on that journey together.

[00:13:01] Oh yeah.

[00:13:02] If you're going different directions, there's no way that, I mean, how are you guys going to stay together if you're going in different ways?

[00:13:07] You're going to be in different directions and as far as faith goes.

[00:13:10] And there's probably so many, I mean even in, you know, if one person's a crook and the other person's not, one person's doing drugs and the other person's not, you know, it's exactly all those principles that you hold dear to you.

[00:13:21] If you guys are not aligned in your.

[00:13:22] You need to identify that in the very beginning.

[00:13:25] It's not work.

[00:13:26] I mean, it could but it's going to be hard with someone's an alcoholic and the other one's not.

[00:13:32] That's going to be a hard road.

[00:13:34] I can't, I can't see it working.

[00:13:37] I know for us.

[00:13:39] Thank God.

[00:13:40] Thank God that we don't have any of those things but when you or I are struggling with something,

[00:13:46] it's easier to get back up here.

[00:13:49] I mean, I see relationships.

[00:13:51] There's a lot of relationships out there where one of the partners is trying to fix the other side.

[00:13:57] You know, maybe there's a drug problem or whatever the problem might be or they think,

[00:14:02] you know, I know they're not religious but I'm going to try to make them religious.

[00:14:06] I mean, that's a really hard thing to tackle in a relationship and not to say that it can't work.

[00:14:13] But they have to be willing.

[00:14:14] But it's absolutely, if they're not, you're basically gambling whether it's going to work or not.

[00:14:20] Bye, beautiful.

[00:14:21] Thank you, Mama.

[00:14:23] And you're kind of gambling whether that's going to work or not.

[00:14:27] You're hoping it's going to work.

[00:14:28] And you think because you love each other, I mean maybe it's worth trying.

[00:14:33] But it's a, I would try to work those things out before you get married because once you get married

[00:14:38] it's really hard to unravel those that I mean it's like I know people just now divorce is like they just check in.

[00:14:45] You know, go file the paperwork call it turning and get it divorced but still, you know, there's if you have kids,

[00:14:51] there's other people involved, there's things involved, there's money involved, there's all kinds of things that are involved.

[00:14:57] And it's just better working that out before you get married.

[00:15:02] Yeah, a thousand percent and work ethic too, right? Don't you think?

[00:15:06] Yeah, I mean, yeah, if one person, it just, you know, so if one side is loved watch,

[00:15:12] you know, isn't going to be, you know, talked out of football every single game and isn't going to be talked up.

[00:15:18] And the other side is, you know, hungry and can't.

[00:15:21] And doesn't watch.

[00:15:22] I don't think I can't be with a leads to imagine if I was, if I was a TV watcher all the time.

[00:15:27] You know, gosh, no, no. I mean, you definitely, you'd be all over me for sure.

[00:15:33] You could have my head.

[00:15:34] But I think that's just the way that I grew up. My mom was just so go, go, go.

[00:15:42] And it has its downsides, right? Because you can overwork yourself but I definitely need someone very driven and you too.

[00:15:50] Yeah, I mean, I'd be the same way. If you weren't, you know, if you didn't, I mean, not that I don't, so don't take this wrong.

[00:15:59] I don't think that you need to take care of the house.

[00:16:02] But you do take care of the house and you take care of the kids.

[00:16:07] And I helped too. I do that stuff too.

[00:16:09] But I would say that you could take on more.

[00:16:11] But I do, this is something I want to say there.

[00:16:15] I want to take this on myself because I am such a perfectionist that I've hired so many people and I clean way better.

[00:16:27] Like, I do the white glove test and I'm like, you got to be kidding me.

[00:16:30] I'll just, I'll do this myself.

[00:16:32] Like, what is it?

[00:16:33] Eight nine hundred dollars.

[00:16:34] I can't seem to keep all due to my soul.

[00:16:36] I'll do myself.

[00:16:37] This is not, no, I'm perfectionist.

[00:16:41] I'll do it myself.

[00:16:41] I enjoyed doing it.

[00:16:42] I'm going to do it myself.

[00:16:43] But my mom, what did she do?

[00:16:45] What was her first job when she came to Canada?

[00:16:47] She was a housekeeper for very wealthy people.

[00:16:52] I want to put their names out there, but I can because she worked for very wealthy people.

[00:16:57] She got beautiful gifts and she did a macula work.

[00:17:02] And she taught me how to clean things.

[00:17:04] I don't cross contaminated.

[00:17:05] I do everything perfect.

[00:17:07] And when you're dealing with that kind of client, they watch everything.

[00:17:11] And I think that's why we were so good with the architectural concrete company.

[00:17:16] Even little things like our crew, I would say do not lean on the walls.

[00:17:23] You know how guys like to lean on the walls?

[00:17:26] And the women, the housewives would be like, he's leaning on my wall.

[00:17:32] His dirty hand is on my wall.

[00:17:34] I would have these discussions, they're like, really do they care?

[00:17:37] I'm like, yes, they care.

[00:17:39] All these little things.

[00:17:41] Anyway, the totally different topic, but I love that just those little things made us the top of the pick, top of the pick and that is.

[00:17:53] And I think in principles too, there's other things that we don't have a problem with or anything.

[00:17:57] But like, you know, I'm not going out to the club or I'm not, you know, I don't, you know,

[00:18:02] I'm not going to strip clubs or anything like that.

[00:18:05] And I think that there's people out there that could be dealing with that in there.

[00:18:09] You know, it's like, you know, the husband thinks it's okay to, right?

[00:18:12] I'm going to go to the bar, be Friday and Saturday night or, you know,

[00:18:16] or the wife thinks that she wants to go out with her friends.

[00:18:19] And, you know, we don't have that problem because we're definitely see eye to eye on those things.

[00:18:23] Yeah, or when we do events, I feel like we have this agreement where it's,

[00:18:33] we don't have the people will do the red carpet.

[00:18:35] We'll stay for a certain amount of time, 30 minutes an hour, but we're not here to party and get crazy.

[00:18:41] We don't, we don't drink.

[00:18:43] Yeah.

[00:18:44] We'll switch out the drinks for water.

[00:18:48] Yeah.

[00:18:48] Especially after the baby, I haven't had it drink.

[00:18:53] And since Daniel was born, that's so crazy.

[00:18:55] Yeah, I mean, I'm guilty of a glass of wine here and there, but.

[00:18:59] No, but you're not a drinker.

[00:19:01] You're not like, oh, I gotta stay.

[00:19:02] I gotta talk to everybody.

[00:19:03] Gotta know.

[00:19:04] No, no, no.

[00:19:05] Yeah, no, no.

[00:19:05] And that's, those are all aligned principles and that's why I think when you have aligned principles,

[00:19:11] it's an unspoken word.

[00:19:12] You don't have to say it to each other.

[00:19:15] No, we don't.

[00:19:15] We just give each other that look like let's go.

[00:19:18] Time to go.

[00:19:19] Yeah, let's get out of here.

[00:19:21] And, and I think with our kid, I mean, there's not much that we don't.

[00:19:25] I mean, I may, there may be some things where I am a little stricter about and there's things that you're a little stricter about.

[00:19:33] But we're on the same page.

[00:19:34] We're on the same page.

[00:19:36] Yeah, I feel that's important.

[00:19:37] So what was the last thing we came up with?

[00:19:39] The very last thing.

[00:19:42] And I feel like for me, I feel this is very important.

[00:19:44] Was there another thing because it's a two pretty important thing?

[00:19:47] It's like it's our lifestyle having shared lifestyle in hobbies.

[00:19:53] And I feel that that's something that we enjoy doing things together.

[00:19:59] I feel like it's you can do.

[00:20:01] I definitely do.

[00:20:01] I like straw wars and if I couldn't, if you didn't like straw wars, you just wouldn't be marriage material.

[00:20:07] But if, right, exactly.

[00:20:09] So if we can do things and like things and be passionate about things together,

[00:20:15] that bonds you like glue.

[00:20:18] Yeah, I mean, I think we're, I can't think of anything that we're,

[00:20:21] I mean, you, I think there's things that I curved you into a little bit.

[00:20:27] Like you liked going, I think you loved Comic Con.

[00:20:30] Yeah.

[00:20:31] But I dragged you to Comic Con.

[00:20:32] But I like it, we have to go to Comic Con.

[00:20:34] I like experiencing new things because that's what life is about.

[00:20:38] Trying different things, trying different foods, trying different cultures,

[00:20:42] learning about different people and things.

[00:20:44] So I'm very open mind something that I do that you don't like.

[00:20:52] Well, you don't like chess.

[00:20:54] No, I do like chess.

[00:20:56] I do like chess.

[00:20:56] Yeah, but you're not like, I'm not up to go play chess with me.

[00:20:59] I'm not obsessed with it.

[00:21:00] But I like it.

[00:21:02] It's challenging.

[00:21:03] I like it for you.

[00:21:04] I just don't have as much time to do it.

[00:21:07] Fighting.

[00:21:09] Gigiitsu?

[00:21:10] I just don't, I just don't want you to see me.

[00:21:13] I'm watching it.

[00:21:14] I just don't want you humming home with fungus toes and all that.

[00:21:18] Like it.

[00:21:18] That just kind of grosses me out.

[00:21:20] Well, let me check out the gym.

[00:21:21] Make sure it's top of the line and then we're okay.

[00:21:25] But I don't like going to.

[00:21:27] I don't want you to go with it.

[00:21:30] We don't know.

[00:21:30] We don't know.

[00:21:31] He doesn't have that, but that would be that would be my worst

[00:21:36] nightmare if he went to a dodgy gym and practice there.

[00:21:40] Like that would that would not find that would not be in my alignment.

[00:21:44] So, but in those times things watching, I like to look at it.

[00:21:48] I didn't even know what a tap out was.

[00:21:53] So, you kind of showed me that world and it was weird because there's this elegant,

[00:21:57] classy woman coming in with you and I remember Dana White going,

[00:22:01] who is this chick with?

[00:22:04] What a target.

[00:22:05] Like a belly, a belly, all the way back.

[00:22:07] Come on, let's be honest.

[00:22:08] Okay, anyway, his past life is his past life.

[00:22:11] So, so here's the thing.

[00:22:13] So, but you've been to UFC before.

[00:22:15] I have.

[00:22:16] I have a lot of ways to get to the gym at you.

[00:22:17] So, so I would say like in a lot of ways we're always the first thing I took when we went to the Super Bowl.

[00:22:24] You enjoyed that when we went to right out the gate.

[00:22:27] I took you to Tony Robbins and you were super excited about that.

[00:22:31] You, I think you liked it more than I did.

[00:22:32] Oh, I loved it.

[00:22:33] I loved it.

[00:22:34] That's second Tony Robbins you went to.

[00:22:36] I had to leave and you didn't want to leave.

[00:22:38] You stayed.

[00:22:39] I stayed by myself.

[00:22:40] There's a three day event.

[00:22:41] I went, I think I went for two day or four day event.

[00:22:44] And I went for two days and then I had to go to Afghanistan for military thing that we were doing out there.

[00:22:52] Like, you know, we're bringing fighters out to Afghanistan.

[00:22:56] I was actually really upset that you laughed because I feel like that was such a huge, I wish you would have stayed.

[00:23:04] I mean, we get you that out in this case.

[00:23:06] I wanted to go to Afghanistan with you but this was, I feel it was more important for what I needed in my life.

[00:23:14] I was going through such a hard time and it was so incredible.

[00:23:20] And people there were amazing.

[00:23:22] We were, you know, forever we're a VIP.

[00:23:25] You saw where we were sleeping.

[00:23:27] You probably would not have viewed it very happy you stayed.

[00:23:30] We were a VIP.

[00:23:31] Forever VIP because Dan did an infomercial with Tony Robbins.

[00:23:36] So Tony Robbins keeps him very dear to his heart.

[00:23:39] So we could go to any event and we were in the IPI met Jim Quick who is a wonderful person.

[00:23:44] Wonderful friend of ours and just so many.

[00:23:47] It's just, I mean, I don't know how to explain it other than there was just so many amazing people there.

[00:23:55] And it really did change my life and it challenged me to pray and wish for something that was impossible.

[00:24:05] And they told me I wasn't ever going to have a baby and that it would cost me maybe even hundreds of thousands of dollars.

[00:24:12] And I challenged God and I wrote this letter to the unborn child, the child that I wished for,

[00:24:23] the child that was going to become a part of my life, change the world.

[00:24:29] It's so crazy.

[00:24:30] And then now, no, yeah.

[00:24:34] I participated in that whole thing too.

[00:24:38] I don't believe it how that played out.

[00:24:40] But I mean, I would say that we both love doing those types of things together.

[00:24:45] And I can't really think of anything that specifically, I mean,

[00:24:49] I like sports.

[00:24:51] I like any sport because they're the mindset that people that are pushing that are fighting for what they believe in,

[00:24:58] the fighters, the football players.

[00:25:02] And then in Tony Robbins, I just, I was brought up to push myself to surround myself with people.

[00:25:12] I want to learn from people that are better than me.

[00:25:16] Always and forever.

[00:25:18] I'm never going to say, oh, no, that's not how it is.

[00:25:21] Let me learn what you have to teach me.

[00:25:24] I want to learn as much as I can and whatever works for,

[00:25:29] and you're like that too, whatever works for us will keep that.

[00:25:32] What doesn't work?

[00:25:33] I respect that it works for you but I will forever, forever, be learning forever.

[00:25:38] I think you too. We love to learn.

[00:25:42] And that said, we're going to go to a fight soon and we're going to the BKFCs.

[00:25:48] We're, um, we're, see how do we say this?

[00:25:51] We can't say too much with their reality show and all that.

[00:25:54] Well, we're owners in the BKFC so.

[00:25:57] But that said, we're just really enjoying it.

[00:26:01] I'm so excited for you. I'm all the stuff.

[00:26:03] It's been working on together.

[00:26:05] But can I just say it's crazy how the stars aligned and brought us to that journey.

[00:26:13] Well, here you are. And here we are.

[00:26:16] And here we are. And here we are. We're married and we're, and it's, we're chugging along.

[00:26:21] Everything is, I mean, it's not always perfect.

[00:26:24] No. Please, let me, let me be very clear.

[00:26:27] But we're fighting for the same goal. We're fighting for the same purpose.

[00:26:30] That's what we are.

[00:26:31] We love together. I love to say that whenever we have a disagreement,

[00:26:36] that one of us are going to say that we're on the same team and that usually kind of puts us on the same page together.

[00:26:45] Right. And if you're not, how do you build an empire together?

[00:26:48] How do you build a beautiful legacy?

[00:26:50] And how do you teach your little ones to just live the best life ever?

[00:26:57] Well, that's not your legacy dream.

[00:26:59] Because little ones are your legacy.

[00:27:02] Anyways, guys, thank you for joining us for the Prettyimpunk podcast.

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[00:27:31] So anything else before we jump out?

[00:27:33] I think that was a great podcast.

[00:27:35] I hope that that touched someone out there and just sparked something within them.

[00:27:41] I love talking these things out.

[00:27:42] I mean, this is, I mean, we talk about it in other terms.

[00:27:45] I think we really get a little deeper together when we sit down here and talk about it.

[00:27:49] I feel like it connects us.

[00:27:50] And this is, this is our thing.

[00:27:52] This is our thing and I encourage you guys to find your thing.

[00:27:56] Whatever that is that gets you getting inside that brings you closer together

[00:28:00] that just creates this warmness and changes the world in some way.

[00:28:06] Maybe it's a charity.

[00:28:07] Maybe I don't know what it is.

[00:28:09] Pray for it.

[00:28:10] It's going to come to you guys.

[00:28:12] God bless you and we will see you next week.

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